Showing posts with label nanjing expat. Show all posts
Showing posts with label nanjing expat. Show all posts

Thursday, April 24, 2025

Under Shanghai Dominatrix's Cane: A Slavic Expat’s Kinky Fantasy in Nanjing’s Skyline Suite

 As a Shanghai dominatrix who has tons of domination experience, I’ve long captivated those who crave surrender. A submissive from the former Yugoslavia, enthralled by my online presence for years, finally summoned the courage to request an outcall to Nanjing. His message was a plea wrapped in reverence, and I agreed to transform his fantasy into reality.

He had booked a high-floor suite in a Nanjing hotel, its floor-to-ceiling windows framing the shimmering Yangtze River. The room was elegant yet sterile—marble floors, muted beige tones, a space begging to be claimed. By the time I arrived, it would become a sanctuary of exquisite suffering.

I stepped into the suite dressed in unrelenting black: a tailored coat that grazed my ankles, leather gloves that whispered of control, and a polished case cradling tools of correction—each chosen for precision, each a promise of pain. He greeted me at the door, already shirtless, kneeling on the cool marble. His eyes, wide with awe and fear, met mine for a fleeting moment before dropping. The discipline had begun long before I crossed the threshold.

Words were unnecessary; his detailed pre-session letter had laid bare his desires: pain, discipline, humiliation, and the cane above all. Its sting. Its ritual. Its unforgiving clarity. I gestured to the window, the city’s lights flickering like silent witnesses. “Undress fully,” I commanded. “Kneel facing Nanjing.”

He obeyed, his movements deliberate, exposing himself to the night and to me. I unlatched my case, arranging the canes on a lacquered table with deliberate slowness—a thin rattan, a heavier bamboo, each gleaming with intent. His breath hitched at the sight, a sound that curled my lips into a smile.

“Count for me,” I said, my voice low and unyielding. “Miss a number, and we begin again.”

The first stroke sliced through the air, landing with a crack that echoed off the suite’s walls. He gasped, his body tensing as the pain bloomed across his skin. I allowed him a moment to savor it before delivering the second, then the third, each strike a note in a symphony of control. By the tenth, his back bore a lattice of welts, each line a testament to my skill and his submission. Yet I was far from sated.

At twelve, he faltered, his voice cracking as he miscounted. I paused, letting the silence stretch, and strolled to the table where he’d left a porcelain teapot, steam curling from its spout. I poured myself a cup, the jasmine scent mingling with the charged air, and sipped slowly. His eyes followed me, pleading, but I offered no reprieve. “From one,” I said, and the cane sang again.

Each mistake reset the count; each cry marked his devotion. I wielded the cane with rhythmic precision, not cruelty—pain, after all, is a gift, and he received it with the fervor of the devout. The city beyond the window seemed to hold its breath, Nanjing’s pulse syncing with the ritual unfolding within.

After fifty strokes, properly counted, I extended the cane to him. “Kiss it,” I instructed. His lips, trembling with exhaustion and gratitude, pressed against the wood, sealing his surrender. I leaned close, my breath grazing his ear. “You begged for the cane, and I delivered,” I whispered. “But you invited me, and until I leave this city, you are mine.”

I reclined on the suite’s plush chaise, the Yangtze’s reflection dancing across the ceiling. He remained by the door, wrists bound with silk cord, his body a canvas of red lines—my signature, my promise fulfilled. The welts would fade, but the memory of this night would sear itself into his soul.

Nanjing will whisper of me.

He will never forget.


Wednesday, November 27, 2024

China BDSM | My BDSM Outcall To A Spanish Air Captain In Nanjing

I am Shanghai dominatrix Alessandra, a powerful woman in control of her own destiny. I guide men through their deepest desires and fantasies. Over the past 16 years, I’ve had the privilege of meeting many fascinating men, including 10 esteemed air captains who sought to explore BDSM in the most personal, thrilling ways.

A Spanish air captain recently landed in Nanjing and reached out to me for a BDSM outcall, seeking to explore his deepest desires in a safe and consensual manner. He graciously provided me with a luxurious hotel room for our session in Nanjing. I designed an exciting scenario for him, full of anticipation and excitement.

I watched with fascination as he engaged with a blow-up doll, using it as a vessel for his most primal urges. The way he moved, the way he moaned in pleasure, all was a symphony of desire that was intoxicating to witness. And as he approached the verge of orgasm, I decided to introduce a new element to our play — hot wax.

The sizzle of the wax against his skin was electrifying, a sharp contrast to the softness of his previous indulgences. The way he quivered beneath me encouraged me to torture him more, a heady mix of power and pleasure that I had come to crave. And as he finally succumbed to the intensity of his release, I knew that this night would be one to remember.

Thursday, February 15, 2024

BDSM Pegging: My Strap-On Experience with Over 300 Western Submissives in China

In the vibrant landscape of BDSM across China, one experience stands out for its depth of exploration and emotional resonance: pegging. As a dominatrix who has had the privilege of strapping on and pegging over 300 western men throughout major cities like Shanghai, Hangzhou, Nanjing, Suzhou, Wuxi, and Beijing, I’ve witnessed firsthand the transformative power of this intimate act.

What Draws Men to Pegging?

The appeal of pegging for men is multifaceted, touching on aspects of vulnerability, trust, and sexual liberation. For many, it represents a chance to explore parts of their sexuality that may have been previously stifled by societal expectations or personal inhibitions.

Vulnerability and Surrender: Pegging allows men to experience vulnerability in a way that feels safe and consensual. The act of being penetrated can be disarming, breaking down barriers and fostering a deep connection between partners. This experience often leads to emotional catharsis, allowing men to confront and embrace their own desires.

Exploration of Gender Roles: In a world where traditional masculinity is often rigid and limiting, pegging offers an avenue for men to step outside those confines. Engaging in pegging allows them to challenge conventional notions of masculinity, exploring their sexuality without fear of judgment. This playful subversion can be incredibly liberating.


Physical Sensation: The physical sensations involved in pegging are unique and can be intensely pleasurable. Many men report discovering new erogenous zones and experiencing orgasms that feel different from traditional sexual encounters. The prostate, often dubbed the “male G-spot,” can be a source of intense pleasure, leading to mind-blowing orgasms that redefine their understanding of pleasure.


Trust and Intimacy: The act of pegging requires a high level of trust between partners. It fosters an environment where communication and consent are paramount. This trust can enhance intimacy, allowing couples to connect on deeper emotional levels. Many men find that the experience strengthens their relationships, creating a bond that transcends physicality.


Breaking Taboos: Engaging in pegging can feel like a rebellious act against societal norms. For many men, the thrill of stepping into uncharted territory, defying expectations, and embracing their fantasies can be exhilarating. This element of taboo can heighten arousal and add an exciting layer to their sexual experiences.


My Experiences Across China

Traveling across China for pegging sessions has given me a unique perspective on how cultural attitudes towards sex and BDSM vary from city to city. In bustling metropolises like Shanghai and Beijing, the underground BDSM scene is thriving, with a diverse community of participants eager to explore. Meanwhile, in smaller cities like Wuxi and Suzhou, the experience can be more subdued, with individuals often approaching pegging with a sense of curiosity and nervous excitement.

Regardless of the location, the common thread remains: men are seeking deeper connections with their desires. Each session has its unique rhythm, shaped by the individual’s fantasies and boundaries, and my role as a dominatrix is to facilitate that exploration in a safe, consensual manner.

Pegging is more than just a sexual act; it’s an opportunity for self-discovery and empowerment. As I continue my journey through the BDSM landscape in China, I remain committed to guiding men as they navigate their desires, helping them break free from societal constraints and embrace their true selves. Whether it’s in a high-rise apartment in Shanghai or a cozy space in Hangzhou, the appeal of pegging transcends boundaries, opening doors to new levels of pleasure and intimacy.


Wednesday, January 23, 2019

Nanjing Expat/Foreigner SM Fun Party

I am a domme/mistress and can travel to Nanjing for SM sessions.
contact me beforehand to book a session
mistress@doctor.com