Here is the answer from one of my chastity slaves
It’s the "not getting off" part I like the most. It’s like you’re giving up something. I’m into my owner having a great level of control over me. My mistress saying “wear this shirt”, “wear this underwear,” “shrink your clitors”that stuff gets me excited. Chastity is an extension of that. I’m giving this up to my dominatrix. I’m letting her decide. I remember back in high school getting high-top chucks because it was a really low-level form of bondage you could wear every day because it restricted your ankle. For me, it’s a lot of the wearing something sexy and people not knowing.
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