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My Chastity Key Holding Kingdom

I locked 1st slave up in chastity cage in 2008

I have been a reliable key holder for over 230 slaves over the past 13 years.

Countries I have conquered : USA/Canda/UK/Germany/Spain/France/Switzerland/Holland/Portugal/Belgium/Australia/New Zealand/Singpoare/China/Japan/Norway/ Sweden/Malaysia/Czech Republic

I hope I can conquer over 40 countries by 2025.

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How to Stop/Reduce Masturbating

 Male chastity can be a highly effective way of controlling your sexual urges. If you’ve been thinking about holding back on masturbation, it’s worth mentioning that tons of men are practicing it worldwide.

The use of chastity devices is an effective way to abstain from sexual activity if you simply cannot hold back. Additionally, if you wanna be a chastity slave, a new challenge can provide you with some extra excitement. There are a number of psychological and physical pleasures (or pains) that you can receive from having your cock and balls constrained in a cage.

If you are worried about porn or masturbation take over your life, you can certainly join my chastity control program and benefit from it!

BDSM Maste/slave Contract Chastity Template

 Definitions

Chastity Cage: Any lockable wearable device designed for continuous wear to prevent masturbation, infidelity, control sexual urges or aggression, or sexual intercourse.

Slave: The individual who will wear the device. By definition, the Slave has surrendered control of their sexual organs and services to the keyholder. /

 

Keyholder: The individual who will hold the key and the control for the device. By definition, the keyholder is the individual entrusted to have absolute say in the use of the Slaves sexual organs and services.

Term

Slave will wear the chastity device for a period of time determined [by himself / by the pair together / by Keyholder / by (insert other method here)]

Hygiene

[Slave/Keyholder] is responsible for regular cleaning of device.

Slave will notify the Keyholder immediately of any concerns regarding function or cleanliness of device.

Keyholder will permit at least one removal of device in a seven-day period for cleaning

Slave agrees that such release may be supervised and agrees to all terms of release as set forth by Keyholder, including restraints if deemed necessary.

Slave agrees that he will immediately re-secure device after all cleanings.

Both parties acknowledge that a release from device may be permitted for medical or extreme discomfort issues. However during such release no orgasms are permitted and Slave agrees once medical condition is rectified immediate return of the device will commence without delay.

Keys

Keyholder will retain all keys to said device.

Keyholder will carry one key on their person at all times.

Slave will not attempt to break free from or defeat the purpose of the device in any way.

Keyholder will make one emergency key available to Slave for use in medical emergency, doctor appointments, and any other situation in which excessive bodily harm may be present to Slave.

Slave agrees that in such emergency he will notify Keyholder immediately and that no orgasm is permitted. If self-release is attempted and/or carried out, punishment as outlined in the contract will be applied.

Slave agrees that once medical condition has been rectified Slave will re-secure device immediately and notify Keyholder of said action.

Sexual Release / Orgasm

Keyholder agrees that Slave will be entitled to at least [number] releases in any [period of time]

Slave will spend no less than [number] hours but no more than [number] hours out of the device.

Keyholder is given sole discretion of how releases will be carried out. Keyholder agrees that at least [number] uncaged periods will include an orgasm for Slave.

Slave acknowledges and agrees that Keyholder has certain sexual needs that may need fulfilled and such releases for Keyholder do not constitute a release for Slave.

Slave agrees to satisfy Keyholder by whatever means Keyholder deems necessary for sexual gratification.

Slave agrees that sexual releases may be accompanied by being restrained as determined by Keyholder.

Slave agrees that Keyholder may release Slave for the means of sexual play but that no orgasm is permitted until Keyholder permits one.

Slave agrees to use any sexual aids such as (but not limited to) strap-ons, vibrators, dildos, and other artificial aids to satisfy Keyholder.

Slave agrees that Keyholder may use devices mentioned above in addition to other restraints on Slave.

Non-Sexual Releases

Slave agrees that Keyholder may release Slave out of good nature and that such a release from device is not grounds for sexual release.

Slave agrees to abide by all directions from Keyholder during such releases.

Slave agrees to re-secure device upon command from Keyholder.

Attire

Slave agrees that Keyholder may require certain clothing to be worn by Slave, including but not limited to feminine clothing such as heels, hosiery, and other items. In such cases Slave agrees to follow directives as set forth by Keyholder.

Slave agrees that Keyholder may specify that Slave remove all clothing within the confines of the [household/bedroom].

Keyholder agrees that they will not require clothing that would be detrimental to normal public wear or that would otherwise affect public opinion, interfere with work duties, or that would cause public humiliation for Slave.

Slave acknowledges that Keyholder may adorn themselves in various clothing to tease and/or torment Slave.

Penalties and Punishments

Both parties agree that deviation from contract will result in either cancellation of contract or punishments to correct errant behavior.

Breach of contract by Keyholder will constitute a cancellation of contract.

Cancellation of contract will result in immediate release of Slave from device.

Breach of contract by Slave will be handled at the discretion of the Keyholder as outlined below.

Unauthorized removal of device will result in a [number] day period of lock up and denial for Slave. Absolutely no orgasms will be allowed for Slave during this penalty period.

Unauthorized masturbation will result in a [number] day period of lock up and denial for Slave. Again, absolutely no orgasms will be allowed for Slave during this penalty period. Additional punishment may be added as determined by Keyholder

Slave agrees that the following accepted punishments may be administered by Keyholder to correct or punish infractions from contract: [punishments agreed upon by couple] [ex: spanking, flogging, private humiliation, further extension of chastity period]

Hard Limits

Slave and Keyholder agree that any sexual play carried out under the terms of the contract shall not include:

[hard limits of Slave]

[hard limits of Keyholder]
[Ex: scat, watersport, anal]

Keyholder Signature____________________________________Date________________

Slave Signature_________________________________Date________________

Upon signing of contract Slave is to immediately secure said device and hand over keys to Keyholder. Terms of this contract commence upon transfer of keys.

Tips & Advice for Chastity Slaves

After you book my chastity package, I will take you to the journey of denial and frustration and help you with chastity device selection, sizing, health and hygiene, as well as the obvious denial and frustration. My goal is to own your tiny bro!

Many chastity newbie slaves are freaked out by the idea of 24/7 chastity denial but you dont start with 24/7 in my training. If you have no or very little experience, we start with you in cage for a few hours per day. Apart from that, poor choice of chastity device can lead to injury, which probably makes you back off. 

You have to realize chastity training is a gradual process. When you start the chastity training, you can not start doing everything all at once. You start with 2hours in cage on day 1. I will push you a little by locking you up for 3-4hours on day 2. You will be pushed day by day. If you just keep following my instruction, you will look back and see that your starting point is miles away and it will be such a good feeling. 

What Is A Ruined Orgasm? How To Do It?

What is a ruined orgasm?

Ruined orgasm is a typical play in BDSM. They are orgasms with stimulation purposely ceased as part of tease and denial play. The male submissive is stimulated to the very jag of climax until stimulation is abruptly stopped.

For a Domme, ruining their submissive's orgasm reinforces the control they have over their submissive by deciding when they actually get to experience a full orgasm. And for the Sub, many enjoy the intensity of the tease and denial elements that come with their owner domme's  commands.

After having their orgasm ruined, the Sub can still maintain their arousal and use their feelings of frustration during some post-ruination sex*. Dominants can toy with ruined orgasms as a way to frustrate their Sub partners to the point of really savoring that final full release in which they are allowed to feel all the climactic pleasures.

How to do a ruined orgasm?

The domme starts with a hand or foot stimulation on the sub's cock and build up the erotic tension. Once he is super close to the point of ejaculation and desperately begging his domme for an opportunity to cum, the domme stops all the stimulation.

Greater Things to Hope For After Enforced Chastity

Research shows when a male slave orgasms after a significant period of denial (usually ranges from several days to several weeks), his brain releases more dopamine and less prolactin, allowing for a longer, more intense orgasm. Additionally, the dopamine stays in his system longer – for up to several days after orgasm – allowing him to continue feeling happy and energized. In short, there is a valid scientific reason why enforced male chastity produces longer and better orgasms with pleasurable, beneficial after effects.