There's a timeless appeal to ABDL smocked dresses that resonates with individuals who cherish nostalgic aesthetics. The intricate smocking detail harks back to classic styles, evoking memories of childhood innocence and carefree days. This fusion of nostalgia with contemporary fashion creates a unique look that stands out in today's trend-driven landscape.
As I and my sub entered the unassuming building, we were greeted by a friendly staff member who escorted me to a mysterious location. The anticipation grew as we entered a small elevator, and I couldn’t help but wonder what awaited me. The elevator doors opened, revealing a sleek and intimate dining space that exuded an air of exclusivity.
This multi-sensory experience at a secret location that combines innovative and surprising dishes with lights, sounds, and scents gave us quite an adrenaline rush. What actually excites me more is the multi-sensory environment activates my brain to create more improvised kinky ideas. I threw my chewed seafood onto my slave‘s plate and showed him a hand gesture which represents the order to eat it up. He obeyed at the risk of being detected by surrounding guests and waiting staff. I remote-controlled the vibrator in his ass, giving him strong vibrations from time to time unexpectedly during the 4-hour dining experience. It was very amusing that he had to keep a smiley face and bite his lips harder to keep from screaming.
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One day, while browsing the internet, my mother stumbled upon a Chinese forum discussing the Adult Baby Diaper Lover (ABDL) community. Intrigued, she began to read stories of individuals seeking custom clothing tailored to their unique needs and preferences
Inspired by the stories she read and driven by her desire to make a difference, she embarked on a journey to become an ABDL tailor. She spent hours researching the specific requirements and challenges faced by ABDL individuals, determined to create garments that would not only meet their practical needs but also celebrate their identities with love and acceptance.
I have been a chastity keyholder mistress for more than 590 subs over the past decade.
I have designed many games related to orgasm and chastity.
Below is one game I designed recently and it is suitable for 1 keyholder and 2 chastity slaves to play.
Both slaves are separated and not allowed to communicate with each other through any means.
They can choose only one option from these 2 options: release, ruined
If both choose “release”, both gets locked in chastity for a certain span of time depending on slave’s experience
If only one slave chooses “release”, that slave gets freedom outside of chastity, the other gets locked in chastity for a certain span of time depending on slave’s experience.
If both choose “ruined”, both gets a ruined orgasm.
Options can be replaced by different means of reward and punishment when mistress Alessandra gets to know slaves better.
More chastity games on my blog
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Do not limit BDSM as an indoor activity.
I always love to combine different fetish elements in a shanghai walking or day tour.
Below is one example of the tour outline we had in shanghai:
We had a nice tour of shanghai museum near people's square when I was remote controlling the buttplug in his ass. I passed him my worn stockings so that he can wipe his mouth when we were having lunch. I put an e-shock collar underneath his shirt collars when we were walking in people's park. I hydrated him with a bottle of my fresh "champagne".
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An american emailed me seeking stiletto fetish related session. This is within what I offer so I designed the session below for him.
I wear below high heels to walk him like walking a dog in the hotel room. Then I made him lick my heels clean and deepthroated him with my heel! I made his little bro wear my highheel and peg him from behind at the same time! We went out to a restaurant afterwards. My heels slide at his crotch area. The rest is for your imagination.
I have sold my highheels in below video to him as a souvenir of that special day!
When visiting Shanghai, it's important to be aware of the local customs and etiquette. Here are some important dos and don'ts for expats to keep in mind:
Dos:
1. Do explore the local cuisine and try traditional dishes like xiaolongbao, Shanghai-style noodles, and soup dumplings.
2. Do take a ride on the Maglev train: Experience the world's fastest commercial train by taking a ride on the Maglev train. It reaches speeds of up to 430 km/h (267 mph) and connects Shanghai Pudong International Airport to the city center.
3. Do explore the Bund: Visit the iconic Bund area along the Huangpu River to admire the stunning skyline of Shanghai. Take a leisurely stroll along the promenade and enjoy the beautiful views of the city's modern skyscrapers.
4. Do greet people with a handshake or a slight bow as a sign of respect.
5. Do carry a small supply of business cards to exchange with locals you meet, as it is a common practice in professional settings.
6. Do dress modestly and conservatively, especially when visiting religious sites or attending formal events.
7. Do try to learn a few basic Mandarin phrases, as it shows respect and can help with communication.
8. Do be mindful of your personal belongings and keep them secure, especially in crowded areas.
9. Do be punctual for appointments and meetings, as being late is considered impolite.
Don'ts:
1. Don't openly criticize or discuss sensitive political topics, as it can be seen as disrespectful or offensive.
2. Don't use excessive gestures or loud voices in public places, as it may be considered impolite.
3. Don't tip in restaurants or taxis, as it is not customary in China.
4. Don't touch someone's head or pat them on the back, as it is considered impolite.
5. Don't point with your finger, as it is considered rude. Instead, use an open hand or gesture with your chin.
6. Don't blow your nose in public, as it is considered impolite. Excuse yourself and find a private area if necessary.
7. Don't disregard local customs and traditions, such as removing your shoes when entering someone's home or following proper dining etiquette. Chrysanthemums are often associated with funerals and are therefore not suitable as gifts for joyful occasions. Green hats are not suitable as gifts because it symbolize cuckoldry.
These dos and don'ts are important guidelines, and it's always a good idea to observe and respect the local customs and behaviors of the specific area you are visiting in Shanghai.
What Is a Movable Dungeon?
It takes you a lot of time and consumes a lot of energy to travel to a traditional bdsm dungeon. Unlike traditional sm dungeons, a movable dungeon is to decorate your place (your hotel room or apartment) with portable and removable tools.
Movable Dungeon Has Below Advantages:
1. Convenience: A movable dungeon allows you to get kinky experience and relaxation in the comfort of your own home or any desired location. You no longer need to travel to a dungeon so it saves you lots of time and efforts.
2. Flexibility: You can schedule with Shanghai Mistress Alessandra in advance so that you have the flexibility to use the dungeon whenever and wherever you want.
3. Customization: Movable dungeons often come with adjustable options. You can tell Shanghai Mistress Alessandra your preferences about movable dungeons so that she can customize it.
4. Privacy: Some people prefer the privacy of their own space when enjoying BDSM treatments. A movable dungeon provides you with the opportunity to have a private and intimate experience of being dominated without the presence of others.
Some Typical Tools are used by Shanghai Leading Mistress Alessandra to create a movable dungeon:
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In today's fast-paced world, finding time for self-care and relaxation can be a challenge. However, with the rise of massage outcall services, individuals can now enjoy the benefits of a soothing massage in the comfort of their own homes or preferred location. In this article, we will explore the advantages of shanghai massage outcall and how it can enhance your well-being.
Convenience and Comfort:
One of the primary advantages of massage outcall is the convenience it offers. Instead of having to travel to a spa or wellness center, a professional massage therapist will come to your desired location. Whether it's your home, office, or hotel room, you can create a serene environment that suits your preferences. This eliminates the stress of commuting, parking, and navigating unfamiliar surroundings, allowing you to fully relax and enjoy the experience.
Personalized Experience:
Massage outcall services often provide a more personalized experience compared to traditional spa visits. When booking an outcall massage, you have the opportunity to communicate your specific needs and preferences directly with the therapist. This allows them to tailor the massage techniques, pressure, and focus areas to address your individual concerns. Whether you require deep tissue work, Swedish relaxation, or a combination of techniques, the therapist can adapt to your requirements, ensuring a truly customized session.
Enhanced Relaxation:
Being in a familiar and comfortable environment can significantly enhance the relaxation benefits of a massage. By eliminating external distractions and creating a peaceful ambiance, you can fully immerse yourself in the experience. The absence of time constraints also allows you to extend the relaxation period after the massage, maximizing the overall therapeutic effects.
Privacy and Confidentiality:
For individuals who value privacy, massage outcall services offer a discreet option. Some people may feel more at ease receiving a massage in the privacy of their own space, away from the public eye. This can be particularly beneficial for those who are self-conscious about their bodies or prefer to keep their wellness routines private. Massage outcall ensures that your personal space is respected, allowing you to fully relax without any concerns.
Reduced Stress and Improved Well-being:
Massage therapy has long been recognized for its ability to reduce stress and promote overall well-being. By bringing the massage experience to your doorstep, outcall services eliminate the additional stressors associated with traveling and navigating busy environments. This allows you to fully unwind and reap the benefits of reduced muscle tension, improved circulation, and increased relaxation. Regular massage sessions can also contribute to better sleep, enhanced mood, and a strengthened immune system.
Shanghai massage outcall services offer a convenient and personalized approach to relaxation and well-being. By bringing professional massage therapists to your preferred location, you can enjoy the benefits of a soothing massage without the hassle of travel or time constraints. Whether you seek stress relief, pain management, or simply a moment of tranquility, massage outcall can be a valuable tool in your self-care routine. Embrace the advantages of massage outcall and experience the rejuvenating effects it can have on your mind, body, and spirit.
3 people make a good team.
I found this blow-up doll for my british slave.
She has various functions such as heatable, contraction and suction.
When he was pounding the warm, tight and contracted doll, I thrusted my strapon into his ass. We were moving at the same pace! Soon he screamed the moment he achieved double orgasms!
A Canadian buyer just ordered this custom style A custom male chastity belt from me on Nov.20, 2023.
This chastity belt has Y back and it locks on the back. The side waist and back strap parts are made of TPU so it will not wear your skin, which makes it comfortable for long term wear.
The music "Stoa" inspired me to create the scenario below.
It was thundering and storming on the tropical island. A drop of golden sunshine penetrated dark clouds after the rain had disappeared. A girl in a white Greek dress slowly walked on her bare feet towards a man lying on the verge of death on the beach. Her toes pushed his dry lips open. She lift up her long dress and started to shed her jade water slowly into his mouth. He soon regained his energy.Music "Stoa" Link
I use two ways to brand my slaves.
1 tatoo branding
2 piercing with name engraving branding
The art of designing a foot fetish scenario involves creating an enticing experience that captivates those with a particular interest in feet. Transitioning seamlessly from one idea to the next while using active voice paves the way for an engaging narrative. Sentences of varying length and structure add a dynamic touch to the overall piece. Embarking on this journey, we delve into the depths of crafting a foot fetish scenario.
Creating the Atmosphere
- Dim the lights, allowing a soft golden glow to envelop the room
- Scatter rose petals on the floor, adding an alluring touch
- Play soothing music to set a relaxed ambiance
- Light scented candles to infuse the air with sensuality.
Captivating the Senses
1. Visual Temptation
— A tantalizing pedicure leaving her nails meticulously painted
— Fragrant oils slowly massaged onto her soft skin
— Decorative anklets and toe rings adorning her delicate feet.
2. Tactile Delights
— Silky fabrics draped on the chaise longue for added comfort
— Featherlight caresses from silk scarves along the soles
— A velvety footrest for exquisite relaxation.
3. Auditory Intrigue
— Whispered words of encouragement, enhancing the intimacy
— The gentle sound of fingertips tracing circles on arches
— Soft sighs of pleasure escaping parted lips.
Designing a foot fetish scenario revolves around appealing to the senses in a seamless flow of creative ideas and elements. With careful consideration of transitions, active voice usage, and sentence variety, the narrative becomes a captivating tale for enthusiasts. Breathe life into the scenario, tailoring it personally to elicit pleasure, satisfaction, and a newfound understanding of the intriguing world of foot fetishism.
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I inteprets the syndromes and fetishes of submissive males into interactive scenario with the dominatrix-me.
I have designed numerous scenarios for real submissive men to fulfill their needs to serve a dominant female.
I ordered my dutch sissy to put on a sexy dress and high heels. We then took a taxi to the pearl studio. There were 3 female staff. I told him to select 3 oysters or mussels and staff opened them for us. I ordered him to pick out the pearls. There were many necklace chains and tools available to choose and use. He made a necklace with the help of studio stuff. He wore the necklace when we left the shop. The staff all gave us big smile all the time. Do you think staff spotted him during the whole process?
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I am domme Alessandra in shanghai.
Nationality: Chinese
Age: 34
Height: 168cm
Weight: 49kg
Experience: 15 years of experience in various BDSM practices as the role of foot mistress, chastity domme, pain domme, boot goddess, pegging domme...
You can contact me via email mistress@doctor.com to schedule a session or a domme-submissive meeting in shanghai.
These PVC diaper covers are custom made by my mother.
Some are locking plastic panties to prevent removal of diapers.
They do not make a sound. Multiple colors to choose.
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It is super easy, convenient and cheap to use money transfer platform Wise( previously called transferwise) to send money to China.
Here you will find answers to the most common questions about Chinese Yuan (CNY) transfers, sending CNY to China using platform/APP Wise
Note : CNY is the same as Renminbi (RMB).
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Sending to CNY
What types of transfers can I use to send CNY?
We support both personal and business customers sending to CNY. The delivery method available depends on the type of sender and recipient. Refer to the respective help pages to see specific information on the methods.
Due to Chinese regulations, only individuals with a Chinese National ID card and business recipients with a CNY-denominated account in Mainland China can receive CNY.
How much can I send?
If sending via UnionPay:
You can send up to 18,000 CNY per transaction
Sending via Alipay or Weixin:
You can send up to 50,000 CNY per recipient, per year
Alipay : Each recipient can receive a maximum of 5 transfers per calendar month
Weixin : Each recipient can receive a maximum of 10 transfers per calendar month
For bank transfers (Business sending to business in China):
Unlimited, but depending on the currency you are sending from there might be limits imposed
How long does it usually take for the money to arrive?
When you set up your transfer, we always give you an estimate on how long your transfer takes, depending on the transfer partner you chose.
Learn more about how long transfers take
Why was my transfer delayed or cancelled?
Your transfer may be delayed or cancelled if your recipients didn't complete verification or card binding in time, prompted by Alipay (72 hours) and WeChat (48 hours).
Your transfer may also be delayed when we need more information about your transfer purpose, requested by the local authorities.
If your transfer is cancelled, your money will automatically go back to you within 3 working days.
It is very convenient and cheap to use Money Exchange Platform Wise(formely Transferwise) To Transfer Money Out Of China
Sending from CNY
You have two options when sending money from CNY:
You can send CNY from your Wise balance. When choosing this option, the requirements below don’t apply.
You can set up a bank transfer from your Chinese bank account. When you are sending CNY from your bank account in China, you’re moving money out of China. This means there are regulatory requirements that apply when you are using this product. Wise is collaborating with a licensed third party payment provider (regulated by the People’s Bank of China) in China to provide this service.
Learn more about our terms of use
Who can send money from CNY?
You can send money from CNY if:
you're not mainland Chinese (this includes people from Taiwan, Hong Kong, and Macau)
You have a valid tax record issued by the China tax authority
If you are sending CNY with Wise for the first time, we’ll need to verify you.
Learn more about getting verified when sending from CNY
Who can receive this transfer?
Due to regulations, you can only send CNY from China to another account you own.
This can be your bank account outside of China, or your Wise Account. You can add CNY to your Wise balance by following these steps .
How much can I send?
The maximum you can send in one transfer is 100,000 CNY. We will also apply an overall limit which is approximately your post-tax income earned in China.
Your overall limit is based on:
Your annual income
The amount of tax paid in China
The number of years of tax paid as proven through tax record(s) submitted.
If you send more than this limit, we will ask you for a new tax record and your limit will be increased based on the new record submitted.
Some banks in China may also have their own limits:
If you're sending from Bank of China, you need to send at least 50,000 CNY per transfer
If you're sending from Industrial and Commercial Bank of China (ICBC), you need to send at least 500 CNY and a maximum of 10,000 CNY per transfer.
How can I pay for my CNY transfer?
After submitting your verification information and documents, you'll receive your unique pay-in details. Only you can use these details to pay for a transfer.
You’ll need to make a local CNY bank transfer from your Chinese banking app to these details. Refer to this step-by-step guide on how this works on your Chinese mobile banking app.
The account you’re paying to is an unique ACS account created for you by our licenced partner in China. These are safeguarding accounts that third party payment providers are required by regulation to open with the People’s Bank of China (PBOC).
You can only send CNY from an account that is under your name. If the money is sent from an account that doesn’t match with the name on your Wise account, we’ll refund it automatically.
Note: if you’re sending from Industrial and Commercial Bank of China (ICBC), you’ll need to search the branch 拉卡拉-备付金账户 directly when creating a recipient instead of selecting the location 北京 first. Searching 北京 first will not show the branch 拉卡拉-备付金账户 which is needed for the payment to be received by Wise
How long does it usually take for the money to arrive?
It usually takes 0–1 working days for your money to get to us.
Payments are processed (China Standard Time):
Monday to Thursday all day, except between 4pm and 8.30pm
Friday, until 4pm
Sunday or last day of a China public holiday, after 8.30pm
If you make a payment during the non-operating hours, your bank might:
block you from initiating the transfer
let you initiate a transfer but the money will only be sent out within business hours
let you initiate the transfer but refund it back to you
Once we’ve received your money, we’ll convert it and send it out. Conversion can take up to 2 working days. The speed of transfer also depends on the currency and country you are sending to.
We’ll always give you an estimate for how long your transfer will take when you set it up.
Which banks can I send CNY from?
The following is a list of banks that you can send CNY from.
This is not an exhaustive list. If your bank is not in this list, try setting up a new recipient and look for “支付机构备付金集中存管账户” in the list of banks. They may still support this transfer.
Bank Name in EnglishBank Name in ChineseBank of China中国银行Industrial and Commercial Bank of China (ICBC)中国工商银行Bank of Communications交通银行China Merchants Bank (CMB)招商银行China Construction Bank中国建设银行Agricultural Bank of China（AgBank）中国农业银行China CITIC Bank中信银行Industrial Bank Co., Ltd. (Fujian Industrial Bank Joint-Stock Corporation）兴业银行China Everbright Bank Co., Ltd光大银行China Guangfa Bank广发银行Ping An Bank Co., Ltd平安银行Bank of Beijing Co., Ltd北京银行Postal Savings Bank of China中国邮政储蓄银行Shanghai Pudong Development Bank上海浦东发展银行China Minsheng Bank中国民生银行Standard Chartered China渣打银行中国Bank of Shanghai上海银行Hongkong and Shanghai Banking Co., Ltd (HSBC China)汇丰银行（中国）
Why did my transfer to Wise bounce back?
There could be a few reasons for thisL
You might have added the wrong recipient details for the bank transfer from your China bank account to Wise. Check the payment screen on Wise to see if you have added the correct recipient details.
You might have sent the money from someone else’s account in China. The money has to come from your own account, so we won’t be able to accept these payments.
You might have made the transfer outside of payment system operating hours. Try again when the payment system reopens. You can find the operating hours above.
I’ve cancelled my payment, how long will my refund take?
It usually takes 0-3 working days to get your money back to you. We’ll let you know when we’ve refunded your money.
Mummification, or total enclosure, is a type of bondage in which the submissive person is completely or partially wrapped in some type of material. While completely encased (cocooned) the individual will become completely immobilized and totally vulnerable to the Dominant.
While Bondage restraints can be anything from rope, tape, cuffs, scarves, chain, – basically, anything you can use to secure a portion of the body. In mummification, the submissive is typically cocooned causing complete immobilization rather than only restraining a section of the submissive’s limbs thereby allowing some limited movement for struggle.
Not being able to move at ALL is a huge turn on for many people but mummification is not just about restricting the submissive. It can also be used to create mild to complete sensory deprivation for the submissive thus forcing the submissive to focus only on the few sensations the Dominant chooses to provide. This can lead to a truly heightened sense of arousal as the submissive’s mind quiets, any form of stimulation becomes amplified as the submissive has nothing else to focus on or distract them from what their Dominant is doing.
There are three basic types of mummification, Zone, Limited, and Full Body.
Zone Mummification is where specific areas of the body are wrapped. The experience is not as intense as the Limited or Full Body mummification, but the submissive does get the feeling of being constricted. This technique is a good start for beginners to get the sensation of being constricted. For example binding a single arm thus limiting the mobility of that limb.
Limited Mummification is where the body is wrapped only from the neck to the feet. The head is not wrapped or covered. A blindfold can be used but the head is not covered, and the nose and mouth are not restricted in any way. This type of mummification can be dramatic and a feeling of helplessness if present. This is a good step after Zone mummification.
Full Body Mummification is an extreme form of bondage, and it is the most dangerous, so extra precautions should be taken by the dominant to ensure the safety of the submissive. With full body mummification, the submissive is wrapped from the top of the head to the bottom of the feet. Some type of breathing device must be used for the safety of the submissive.
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When spending money as an expat using Alipay you have two options:
This is quick and easy to set up (with less caveats) but is not guaranteed to work.
Linking a bank card in Alipay is easy. Just follow these steps:
You’ll see the list of bank cards that can be linked with Alipay. These currently include Visa, Mastercard, Unionpay, and Diners Club.
NOTE || There is no American Express functionality but we believe they are looking to add this in the near future.
Now, the important thing to note with this method is that it may or may not work.
Unfortunately there is no way of knowing straight away. Just because Alipay says its supports Visa cards, it doesn’t mean your transaction will go through in China.
You’ll notice in the above screenshot my Visa card has successfully linked, but this doesn’t guarantee success.
Understanding the nature of the transaction can help you a lot.
If the vendor has applied vendor alipay account to accept payment and the vendor agrees to accept payment from credit cards, you can use alipay to pay from linked debit cards and credit cards. Big chain stores usually accept credit card payment.
If the vendor has applied vendor alipay account to accept payment and the vendor does not agree to accept payment from credit cards, you can use alipay to pay from linked debit cards or balance only.
If the vendor has not applied any vendor alipay account and uses personal alipay account to receive payment, you can use alipay to pay from debit cards or balance only. Usually small stand owners use personal alipay account to accept such payment.
So it’s important to have a back-up… hence the 2nd method…
This method is more full-proof because what you are essentially doing is opening a bank account through Alipay, and it just takes a few clicks.
There are a few downsides though, so let’s run you through it.
In completing these steps you’ve effectively opened up a brand new BANK OF SHANGHAI account in a matter of minutes.
Pretty cool, right?!
You won’t get a bank card though, this is simply an account you will use inside of Alipay.
There are a few things you need to know which are a little bit of a pain in truth.
1 – There is a 10,000CNY limit.
Now, whilst this is a step forward from the previous 2,000CNY limit of the now discontinued (but essentially the same, Tourpass), it still ties our hands a bit.
Whether this is enough for you is entirely case dependent. How long are you in China for? If just a couple of weeks, or even a month – you’ll be OK.
What about if you’re in China for 3+ months? You’re going to need another solution on-top of this.
2 – There is a 5% top-up service charge.
This one is a kick up the backside. An unnecessarily large charge just to use the service, but it is what it is sadly.
That means if you want to top-up the full 10,000CNY you’ll be spending another 500CNY on top of it (see why we included it in the table above now!?)
3 – The Tourcard is only active for 6 months
Going back to those of you who are staying in China longer that 6 months… another hurdle.
The Tourcard will automatically close after 180 days of opening. If you have failed to spend all your money, no problem, it’ll be refunded to your bank upon expiration.
The good news is you can open a new Tourcard after these 6 months have expired.
4 – Only certain banks will work
You’ll notice in the screenshot that only Visa, Mastercard, Diners Club and JCB account holders can use Tourcard.
Tourcard is clearly a useful feature and makes the life of a foreigner in China easier, but it’s important to be aware of the limitations.
This is probably the easiest solution of all but will rely on who you know in China already.
If you have a friend in China who has a Chinese bank account and a verified Alipay account, they can quite simply fire over some money to your account.
Is all you will need is a verified Alipay account yourself (i.e. upload scan of passport, take selfie etc) and you’ll be good to go.
You’ll then just need to find a way to pay them back!
Anyway… we mentioned other solutions for those of you who are planning to stay longer and spend more than 10,000CNY…
Firstly – whilst it goes against everything we’ve said… it’s still worth taking some cash to China.
You won’t be able to use it much, but it’s always worth having this back-up.
Perhaps you owe a friend some money, maybe you’re in a taxi, or you are wanting to buy some souvenirs from the local stalls?
In all of these situations cash can still work – so whilst it’s not king in China anymore… have a bit to hand before taking off for China.
Secondly – get a Wise account. Wise is an excellent option for those of you who travel and regularly hold multiple currencies.
Wise allows you to hold currencies from all over the world including USD, EUR, GBP, JPY, HKD, KRW… and yes, you guessed it CNY (Chinese Yuan)!
