Wednesday, January 31, 2024

What Conditions Should My Chastity Lockees Meet To Get a Release From Chastity?

 When a slave enters into a chastity lifestyle, it is up to their Master to decide how often and when they will be released. The chastity lifestyle is an agreement that the slave and the Dominant have to come to, and with such an arrangement, it is important for both parties to have clear expectations.


At the start of their agreement, the Dominant and the submissive will negotiate the terms of how often the consensually submissive will be released from chastity. Slaves can be released daily, weekly, or monthly or after they complete certain tasks. It is important that the terms established are reasonable and are agreed to by both parties. Therefore, it is best to come to terms that both can adhere to without too much trouble.


The rules for getting a release from chastity can vary from key holder to key holder.

Example 1: Slave gets a release after he stays in chastity for a span of time.

if the arrangement is weekly, then once the Dominant has determined the day of the week that the release should occur they will usually inform the slave of the date and time they will be released from chastity.


Example 2: Slave gets a release after he deepthroats the dildo reaching certain length.


Example 3: If the slave uses my enforced chastity keyholding to build a better body shape, he has to complete enough exercise to get a release.


Example 4: If the slave is a sissy or crossdresser, he has to successfully complete an outing task to get a release.

Wednesday, January 24, 2024

Best Markets To Travel In Shanghai 2024

Shanghai is known for its vibrant markets offering a wide range of goods, from traditional Chinese products to modern and trendy items. Some famous markets in Shanghai include:

Yuyuan Bazaar (Yuyuan Market): Located in the Old City, Yuyuan Bazaar is part of the Yuyuan Garden complex. It features traditional Chinese architecture and offers a variety of shops selling traditional Chinese arts and crafts, antiques, jewelry, and souvenirs.

Nanjing Road: While Nanjing Road is primarily a shopping street rather than a market, it’s one of the busiest commercial streets in Shanghai. The area features large department stores, international and local brands, and plenty of opportunities for shopping.

Tianzifang (Tianzi Fang): This is a trendy arts and crafts enclave that has narrow alleyways filled with boutique shops, art galleries, cafes, and unique handcrafted items. It’s a great place to explore for those interested in art and design.

Dongtai Road Antique Market: This market is known for its collection of antiques and vintage items. It’s a fascinating place to explore for those interested in Chinese history and culture.

Fabric Market (South Bund Soft-Spinning Material Market): Located in the South Bund area, this market is famous for its wide selection of fabrics and tailoring services. Visitors can have custom-made clothing, including suits, dresses, and more.

Shanghai Science and Technology Museum Market: This market is situated near the Science and Technology Museum and offers a variety of electronic gadgets, toys, and tech-related products.

Qipu Road Clothing Wholesale Market: This market is a paradise for those looking for affordable fashion. It’s known for its wholesale clothing shops offering a wide range of styles.

Shanghai Flower Port (Shanghai Huizhan Flower Market): If you’re interested in flowers and plants, this market is a great place to explore. It offers a vast selection of fresh flowers, plants, and gardening supplies.

These markets cater to a diverse range of interests, from traditional Chinese crafts to modern fashion. When visiting, it’s a good idea to explore not just the market itself but also the surrounding areas for additional shopping and cultural experiences. Keep in mind that market offerings and popularity may change over time, so it’s advisable to check for the latest information before planning your visit.

Shanghai Sex Toy Market

Sunday, January 14, 2024

BDSM Scene For My Shanghai Expat Sub: The Strict Tutor/Student Roleplay

In the realm of BDSM, designing a scenario that involves a strict teacher and a willing student can create a powerful and electrifying dynamic. By carefully crafting the elements of this scenario, one can explore the realms of power, control, and submission in a fascinating and consensual manner. This article aims to provide insight into how to create a captivating BDSM scenario featuring a strict teacher and student while incorporating a variety of writing styles including an abundant use of transition words, active voice, varied sentence structure, and adherence to paragraph limits.

Setting the Scene

To begin, imagine a traditional classroom setting with wooden desks neatly arranged in rows and a chalkboard positioned at the front. The scene is dimly lit, casting shadows that evoke a sense of mystery and anticipation. The strict tutor, adorned in tailored attire, exudes an aura of authority and dominance, while the student, nervously waiting at their desk, is dressed in a crisp uniform.


Building Tension

- The strict teacher paces around the room, their steps echoing on the polished floor

- The student fidgets, their pulse quickening as they await the impending lesson

  - Beads of sweat form on the student's forehead as they anticipate the teacher's arrival

  - A mix of fear and excitement consumes the student, creating a cocktail of emotions within them.


Developing the Power Dynamic

Establishing Control

- With a firm grip on a wooden ruler, the teacher takes their place at the front of the classroom

- The teacher's eyes scan the room, ensuring they maintain complete control over their students

  - Their penetrating gaze instills a sense of obedience in every individual present

  - The mere presence of the teacher's authority creates a palpable tension within the classroom.


Enforcing Discipline

- The strict teacher uses their ruler to rap sharply on a desk, eliciting a startled reaction from the student

- "Stand up!" the teacher demands, their voice laced with authority

  - As the student rises from their seat, they can feel their submission intensify under the teacher's watchful eye

  - Each command from the teacher increases the student's desire to please and obey.


Role Plays and Punishments

- The teacher assigns the student a task, emphasizing the consequences of failure

- "Fail, and you shall be subjected to a punishment of my choosing," the teacher remarks

  - The student's heart races with a mix of trepidation and fascination, eager to fulfill the teacher's expectations

  - The anticipation of punishment becomes an intricate dance of pleasure and pain, heightening the deep connection between the teacher and student.


Designing a BDSM scenario centered around a strict teacher and student allows for the exploration of power dynamics, control, and submission in a consensual and thrilling manner. By utilizing an abundance of transition words, active voice, varied sentence structure, and adhering to paragraph limits, the richness of the scenario is enhanced, immersing both participants and readers alike into a world where boundaries are pushed, desires are explored, and trust is paramount. Remember, consent, communication, and safety are vital in any BDSM scenario, ensuring a fulfilling experience for all involved.


Email mistress@doctor.com to get your fantasy designed into a BDSM scenario for play.

Thursday, January 11, 2024

China Fetish Shopping: Foot Fetishist Purchased My Worn Socks To Make Bespoke Quilt

I like to keep my feet as natural as possible. My feet always get very sweaty once I put socks on them. They create strong aphrodisiac smell to provide foot fetishist excitements once they sniff it. A shanghai foot fetishist recently contacted me for an art project. I am glad to help him complete his unique quilt called “original smell”.



Wednesday, January 10, 2024

Essential Safety Precautions for BDSM Beginners

BDSM, an acronym for bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism, encompasses a wide range of consensual sexual activities involving power dynamics and sensory experiences. While engaging in BDSM can be a thrilling and liberating experience, it is crucial to prioritize safety to ensure a positive and enjoyable encounter. By following a set of safety precautions, participants can mitigate potential risks and create a safer environment for everyone involved. Here are some essential safety guidelines to consider when engaging in BDSM:


1 Communication is Key

- Discuss boundaries, limits, and expectations with your partner(s) beforehand

- Establish a safe word or signal to indicate when play needs to stop immediately.


2 Establish Trust

- Engage in conversations about consent and negotiate boundaries in advance

- Consider establishing a safeword or traffic light system to communicate comfort levels during play.


3 Educate Yourself

- Research and gain knowledge about different BDSM practices, techniques, and safety precautions

- Seek guidance from experienced dominas/mistresses to enhance your understanding.


4 Selecting the Right Partner

- Choose partners who prioritize safety, respect, and open communication

- Discuss experience levels and ensure both parties are comfortable with the activities involved.


5 Physical Safety Measures

- Ensure the space is free from hazards that may cause injury, such as sharp objects or unsteady furniture

- Establish a plan for releasing restraints quickly in case of emergencies.


6 Hygiene and Health

- Maintain good hygiene by cleaning and disinfecting toys and equipment before and after use

- Discuss any pre-existing medical conditions or physical limitations that may affect play.


7 Consensual Activities

- Ensure all activities are fully consensual and agreed upon by all parties involved

- Check in with your partner(s) regularly to ensure ongoing consent throughout the scene.


8 Risk-Awareness

- Recognize and understand the potential risks associated with BDSM activities

- Educate yourself on proper techniques and safety measures specific to each activity.


9 Aftercare

- Plan for aftercare, which refers to the emotional and physical support needed after a scene

- Take time to cuddle, debrief, and offer comfort to each other.


Remember, safety should always be a top priority during BDSM encounters. Regularly revisit and update your safety practices as your understanding and comfort levels evolve. Open communication, consent, trust, and education are fundamental in ensuring a pleasurable and safe BDSM experience for all parties involved.

Saturday, January 6, 2024

Best Kinky Adventure Personal Assistant Scene Designed For Yiwu Expat

 I designed the below scenario for an expat submissive in Yiwu who have contacted me for a naughty personal assistant-themed session.

I play the assistant and he plays my boss.

This morning my boss scolds me for being late again at his private office. I have realized this is a boring job so I decide to quit. Right before I speak out my decision to quit, my boss’s several obsessive glares at my high heel sandals make me suspect that he has a foot fetish and he can surrender to my feet. Guys do not pay attention to feet unless they are into feet. I quickly move to his back and use my leather belt to lasso him. He is already under my sandals. “Take off your boxers before I rip them off. " His face appears to be very submissive and quickly obeys my order. He looks happy and excited when I announce “I have a special assignment for you”. He thinks he could get to worship my feet but he shocks when I order him to use his ass to catch my whips and hot candle wax drops! This is what he deserves after he bosses me around in the office for days. 

Wednesday, January 3, 2024

Custom ABDL Sleep Sacks Sleep Bags For Sale

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The advantages of Custom ABDL Sleep Sacks/Bags

Convenience: Highlight the ease of use provided by the zipper closure, making it effortless for the wearer or their caregiver to dress and undress.

Security: Emphasize the security provided by the zipper closure, ensuring that the wearer stays comfortably contained throughout the night without risk of accidental opening.

Versatility: Showcase the versatility of the sleep sack/pajamas, which can be easily zipped up for bedtime and unzipped for activities such as diaper changes or bathroom breaks.

Comfort: Stress the softness and comfort of the cotton padding, providing a cozy sleeping environment for the wearer.

Customization: Offer options for customization, such as different colors, patterns, or additional features like footies, to cater to individual preferences.

Monday, January 1, 2024

Taicang Prostate Massage Outcall

I have done a lot of prostate massage outcalls to expats in Taicang


How I do the prostate massage

Before doing a prostate massage, I usually suggest you do an enema to clean your intestines to enhance prostate milking experience. However it is optional. You can choose to do an enema or not. A disposable enema bag will be provided by me during the massage outcall.

I usually wear a disposable glove on 1 hand and then apply enough lubricant on the glove and the entrance of your anus. If you are a beginner, I usually test with 1 finger entering your anus, then try 2 fingers or more.


Knowledge about prostate massage

The prostate is a walnut-sized organ inside the rectum and just under the bladder. It wraps around the urethra, the tube that drains urine from the bladder.

Milking the prostate involves massaging it with lubricated fingers until it produces a thin, milky fluid called prostate fluid.

The person receiving the massage may have a very intense orgasm or feel an unusual sensation followed by fluid from the penis.


Email mistress@doctor.com to book the massage in advance

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