5 men From United States, 2 men from Germany, 2 men from Australia, 1 men from UK, 2 men from Canada joined my online chastity keyholding for different reasons.
Some want 24/7 enforced chastity keyholding to get rid of masturbation.
Some want partial chastity keyholding when they live with a wife to enhance sexual desires!
The Dutch slave is 35 years old. The American slave is 38 years old. I will lock both of them next week. Guess who will in the chastity world cup 2022? Comment your guess!
I designed a kinky tour for my artist slave in shanghai. We went to Shanghai Museum on a summer afternoon. I wondered why he sweated a lot in the airconed exhibition hall. The remote control in my hand reminded me of the fact he was walking chastity caged and butt plugged.
Plan your kinky tour with mistress Alessandra in advance
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3D Printed TPU & Nylon Chastity Belt For Men/Sissies/Trans
Features: Double Back Straps made in TPU, Side waist made in TPU to maximize comfort, adjustable waist and vertical length to adapt to body change, lock on the back, support any external lock, custom size, black and white 2 color options, escape proof, custom pee hole makes peeing easy, easy anal access, support walking, jogging, riding movements, well-concealed minimalistic style
3D Printed Shield Chastity Belt For Men & Sissies
Features: made in nylon, T-back with anal access, Custom size, Black, White, Yellow 3 Color Options, support internal and external lock at front, inescapable, support walking, jogging, riding
3D Printed Ball Ring Chastity Belt For Men/Sissies/Trans
Features: made in nylon, custom ball ring traps your dick further, custom size, support 1 internal lock at front, 1 internal lock at back, adjustable waist to adapt to body change, easy anal access, black, yellow and white 3 color options, support jogging, walking, riding, inescapable, well-concealed
I recently locked two young slaves in chastity cage. One happens to be 24-year old german, another one happens to be 22-year old Japanese.
You guys can guess who will stay longer in the chastity to win the chastity match?
Style C Ball Ring Chastity Belt
1 Select a chastity belt made of the material to which you are not allergic
I have had slaves who got severe allergy by the cage material. They had to cease the training because of the allergy.
2 Select a chastity belt with good ventilation which is easy for you to clean
It is vital to maintain proper hygiene in the chastity belt so that your pathetic dick can breath. A ventilated chastity belt makes the cleaning easier and enhance your endurance in the long term.
3 Select a chastity belt of good quality
It is extremely important to get a good quality chastity belt. I can not emphasize this enough! If your chastity belt pinches your skin every second step you make, it won’t take long before that little sore spot turns into broken skin – if it doesn’t happen after a few pinches already.
I have had chastity slaves that ordered a cheap cheat chastity belt on Amazon/Ebay and all I could do was advising them not to, and then watch them fail at their chaste experience because of pain.
4 Do not select a chastity belt with an internal lock
Keys tend to break off inside those tiny built-in locks when you pull out the key to lock yourself up. Try to select a chastity belt with a dettached lock.
5 Select a chastity belt that hides well in your pants. which means it should not be bulky!
I believe you will find that the chance of having someone holding the keys for you while you’re securely locked in your chastity belt is an experience you can’t really put a price tag on.
This ceremony will make the chastity locking day so unforgettable!
I am as your keyholder will help you suceed in this chastity training of 90days.
Interview Questions and Answers
1. How did you first become interested in becoming a dominatrix?
Answer:
"I first became interested in becoming a dominatrix through my own personal exploration of BDSM and kink communities. I realized that I had a natural aptitude for leadership and enjoyed the psychological aspects of power dynamics. Over time, I educated myself through reading, workshops, and mentorship within the community."
2. What does a typical session look like for you?
Answer:
"A typical session varies greatly depending on the client's interests and limits. Generally, it involves a detailed discussion of boundaries and expectations beforehand, followed by a custom scenario consisting of a range of activities that may include role-playing, bondage, discipline, and other forms of consensual power exchange. Safety, consent, and communication are always the top priorities."
3. How do you ensure the safety and consent of your clients?
Answer:
"Safety and consent are paramount in every session. I always conduct a thorough negotiation process before any session to understand the client’s boundaries, triggers, and safe words. I also continuously check in with them during the session and have a post-session debrief to ensure they feel safe and satisfied. Additionally, I keep up to date with first aid and BDSM safety practices."
4. What are some common misconceptions about your profession?
Answer:
"One common misconception is that being a dominatrix is purely about inflicting pain. While some clients do enjoy pain, many sessions are more about psychological dominance, control, and various forms of erotic play. Another misconception is that dominatrices do not care about their clients' well-being, when in reality, trust and mutual respect are foundational to the work we do." Another misconception is that Femdom mistresses offer sex as part of their services. In reality, the services provided by femdom mistresses primarily focus on power dynamics, psychological dominance, and various forms of consensual BDSM activities that do not necessarily involve sexual intercourse. I do not offer sex.
5. Can you talk about the psychological aspects of BDSM and why some people are drawn to it?
Answer:
"BDSM can be deeply psychological. For many, it’s about exploring power dynamics, trust, and vulnerability in a safe and consensual environment. It can also be a form of stress relief, a way to explore different aspects of their personality, or a means of healing from past traumas. The key is the consensual exchange of power and the emotional connection it can foster."
6. How do you maintain professional boundaries with your clients?
Answer:
"Maintaining professional boundaries is crucial. I keep clear lines between my personal life and my professional role. Communication is key, and I ensure that all interactions are consensual and within the agreed-upon limits. I also set clear boundaries for aftercare and follow-up, so clients know what to expect."
7. What advice would you give to someone interested in exploring BDSM?
Answer:
"My advice would be to educate yourself thoroughly. Read books, and consult experienced femdom dominatrixes. It’s important to understand the psychological and physical aspects of BDSM and to always prioritize safety and consent. Start slow, communicate openly, and never stop learning."
8. How has your work as a dominatrix impacted your personal life?
Answer:
"My work has taught me a lot about communication, boundaries, and empathy, which have positively impacted my personal relationships. It’s also given me a greater understanding of human sexuality and psychology. Balancing work and personal life can be challenging, but clear boundaries and self-care are essential."
9. What do you find most rewarding about your work?
Answer:
"The most rewarding part of my work is helping people explore their desires in a safe and consensual way. Seeing clients leave a session feeling empowered, fulfilled, and more in touch with their own needs is incredibly gratifying. It’s rewarding to know I can provide a space where people can be their true selves."
10. Are there any particular challenges you face in your profession?
Answer:
"One challenge is combating the stigma and misconceptions surrounding BDSM. It can also be emotionally and physically demanding work, so self-care and professional support are essential. Additionally, ensuring consistent safety and consent in every session requires constant vigilance and communication."
What is tucking?
Tucking is defined as methods one can hide the penis and testes, such as moving the penis and scrotum between the buttocks, or moving the testes up into the inguinal canals. The inguinal canals make up the body cavity where the testes sit before birth.
What do you need for tucking?
medical tape and a snug pair of underwear.
How do we tuck most effectively?
follow these illustrations
Is tucking dangerous?
There’s been little research published on the long-term effects of tucking. Some risks that may occur are urinary trauma, infections, and testicular complaints. You may experience some light symptoms of chafing from tucking. Always check for any open or irritated skin before and after tucking to prevent infection.
Tucking won’t cause you to become sterile. You may have fertility issues if you’re tucking and taking hormone replacement therapy, however. Speak to your medical provider about steps you can take if you’re interested in having biological children in the future and are concerned about complications from tucking.
You can avoid damaging tissue and muscle by never forcing or pulling hard on any part of your genitals while trying to tuck. You should take breaks from tucking to prevent stress on the body.
If you’re concerned about tucking or the risks to your body from long-term tucking, talk to your doctor or medical provider. If you don’t have immediate access to a medical provider, contact your local transgender resource center and ask if they have someone you can speak to about tucking risks and questions.
I answer my emails & messages on skype/wechat/twitter during breakfast/lunch/dinner.
I handle my sessions after my morning breakfast. My sessions can be either offline & online. In general, all the sessions can be arranged during 09:00-22:00. For offline sessions, I pack my session related bdsm tool in a big backpack before I go out for sessions. For online sessions, I do it on skype/wechat.
I spend more time handling online sessions, especially chastity training & sissy task on skype/wechat after covid-19 took place. I do 1-2 session outcalls to slave's hosting place daily.
Some of my popular sessions involved bondage and discipline (plenty of men need to be tied up in order to connect with their emotions and let it all out), pegging, water sport, brain fade (any type of psychological play that keeps the male in a submissive state), CBT (cock and ball torture), corporal punishment (caning, flogging, paddling and other means to inflict pain), cross-dressing ( many men want to act and dress like women so you are not alone), foot/heel/boot worship, animal play (some men identify with dogs and ponies and love being trained and treated like them), breath control, mummification (using a body bag or plastic wrap) and one of my most favorite ones ...chastity training. These alpha males are sick and tired of being in charge so they come to surrender themselves to me. They are very grateful to me because most people do not have the opportunity to be themselves in this cruel world but I realized that for them.
I am very lucky because I can be myself as a powerful and dominant mistress. I can never get tired of bossing men around. I will never be fed up with taming men! I do not have any common bad habbits such as smoking, doing drugs or drinking to get drunk. Apart from being a dominatrix, I have a lot of hobbies such as whipping men to get pleasure which is also my job.
I am truly into submissive men and eternally dominant, which is why I can not be a switch to play the slave role! I do meet my regular slaves separately outside the sessions for dinner from time to time. I pretty much enjoy my life as a dominatrix.
Style C Shield Chastity Belt
This 3D printed shield chastity belt is a custom-fitted and lightweight, yet inescapable chastity device–no piercing required. This chastity belt supports both internal and external locks.
black color shield belt (fast shipping included to major countries)
waist below 80cm 3800CNY in total (fast shipping fee included)
waist 80cm ~100cm 3900CNY in total (fast shipping fee included)
waist 101cm ~116cm 4000CNY in total (fast shipping fee included)
white color shield belt(fast shipping included to major countries)
waist below 80cm 3900CNY in total (fast shipping fee included)
waist 80cm ~100cm 4000CNY in total (fast shipping fee included)
waist 101cm ~116cm 4100CNY in total (fast shipping fee included)
yellowish color shield belt(fast shipping included to major countries)
waist below 80cm 3900CNY in total (fast shipping fee included)
waist 80cm ~100cm 4000CNY in total (fast shipping fee included)
waist 101cm ~116cm 4100CNY in total (fast shipping fee included)
Waist can make 70cm ~116cm.
Customization:
Cock tube size, hole size on shield, shield size, waist length, crotch length
Production time:
3days to print shield chastity mold
16days to print shield chastity belt
Payment:
Prepay 40%, Pay 60% after getting shield chastity mold
When you attached a plastic numbered seal, this becomes a good chastity that goes through airport chastity.
Shield Chastity Belt Assembly Demo Video
He is a beginner in pegging so I suggested him to prepare a small size of dildo so that I can attach it to my strap-on pad to peg him. If it is difficult for slaves to buy dildo online, they can also purchase brand new ones from me. I meet slaves from different cities in suzhou and shanghai each week so I keep some inventory of dildos in case they can not buy them online or travel with them
Three expat slaves in chongqing and chengdu have joined my remote chastity keyholding programme.
My mother is the tailor who makes all types of bespoke shirts & suits for men, dresses, bikinis for sissy and costumes for submissives.
I helped him to do an enema as the preparation so his ass was ready for my fingers to use. I wore a disposable glove and applied enough lubricant on the glove and finally I was ready to enter. I ordered him to blow my toes while I was exploring the g-spot in his ass. Found it and His orgasm was so intense that he trembled.
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We went kayaking in Suzhou a few days ago.
I asked my European sissy to make sure the boat reach the destination within 300 seconds but he used 325 seconds! I had to spank him 50 times as punishment for his failure!
1. It doesn’t have to involve sex, but it sometimes can.
Most people assume BDSM is always associated with sex, and while it can be for some people, others draw a hard line between the two. Both are bodily experiences that are very intense and sensual and cause a lot of very strong feelings in people who practice them, but they're not the same thing. Just because a lady dresses sexy, doesn't mean she wants to have sex with men. Just because a lady live in a luxurious house, doesn't mean she wants burglars to break in. It's kind of similar with BDSM; it's a matter of personal and sexual preference.
2. It can be as simple or technical as you like.
Maybe the thought of being tied up excites you, or you enjoy being pegged or spanked. Or maybe you're more interested in leather highheels, nipple clamps and hot wax. All of that (and obviously a lot more) is within the realm of BDSM. Basically, you can still be into kink without actually ever going to a fully equipped dungeon.
3. There is nothing wrong with people if they’re into it.
This is one of the most common and frustrating misunderstanding about BDSM. BDSM isn't something that is originated from abuse or domestic violence, and engaging in it does not mean that you enjoy abuse or abusing. Instead, enjoying BDSM is just one facet of someone's sexuality and lifestyle. It's just regular people who happen to get off that way. It's regular people who have a need for that to be their intimate dynamic.
4. Kinksters are just as stable as people who prefer vanilla sex.
In my experience, it's easier for people to get into BDSM if they don't have a history of abuse, people who are in a more stable place in their lives. A 2008 study found that people who had engaged in BDSM in the past year were no more likely to have been coerced into sexual activity and were no more likely to be unhappy or anxious than those who didn't do BDSM. And actually, people who engaged in BDSM had lower scores of psychological distress than other people. Kinksters do not judge people who aren't into it. The term "vanilla" isn't meant to be derogatory, just to refer to non-BDSM sexual acts or people who aren't interested in kink.
5. Kinksters don't have to follow any certain pattern in BDSM.
People don't practice BDSM probably think leather uniforms, masks and whips are the typical pattern of BDSM, which is absolutely cringeworthy. There is a variety of practices in BDSM such as pegging, foot worship, servitude, golden shower, edge play and so on. Both parties only have to agree to what they practice based on respecting each others' limits.
Don't worry as I am a meticulous expert in breath play. I always practice safe breath play. His body's natural response to lack of breath—signaling danger to the body—is to release hormones such as adrenaline and endorphins and the release of these hormones can contribute to heightened sexual anal stimulation
I often combine breath play with other kinky activities such as fart play or foot smell.
I ordered the Italian slave to breathe with his mouth close. I then squeezed his nose to the extent that he could not breathe until his mouth was forced to open. I immediately piped my farts or foot smell into his mouth.
Knowledge About breath play
The term “breath play” refers to any sexual activity that involves the restriction of breath. Often, in a BDSM dom-sub dynamic, a dominant will be restricting the breath of a submissive. Breath play is not for people who have asthma, allergies, COVID-19, or other breathing problems.
Tiny dick in your pants,
You will be tamed in every way.
Can't you see in the world,
I am superior than you in every way.
Turn around let me see you,
wanna cage you with my lock.
I know you can't get enough when I turn up with my keys!
You cock's demeanour's begging me,
Won't you let me be your owner tonight!
I remember it was one sunny summer day. One middle-aged Italian booked a 4-hour BDSM session with me. I met him at a boutique hotel near shanghai bund. He did strike me as being the Italian mafia sort. I ordered him to massage my feet when I was lying on my back on the bed and he was sitting next to me.
I forgot what I said to him but suddenly he locked my two skinny wrists with his bare hands. "Can you escape now?" He intoned with a wicked smile. "Of course" I replied, "Your CBT was advanced!" while I kicked his cock and balls. He immediately moved his hands to protect his ached crotch area. I believe he is fully aware who is the boss now. I tied up balls and cock with very thin strings and hold the string. I then started to fist him. If he would do another shenanigan during my fisting, you can imagine what would happen to his cock and balls!
My slaves tried both and most of them find holy trainer in general is much more comfortable and ergonomic than CB6000 cages on the precondition of both devices fit them well. I recommend holy trainer V3 & V4 over CB6000 for any chastity beginners if you are looking to get a ball trap chastity device.
However, both ball trap chastity cages are not suitable for the long term. If you want long-term comfort and security, you must get a chastity belt, preferably a breathable chastity belt in custom size.
I do not know if you are a fan of cotton swabs but they are super useful for thorough cleaning during a long-term chastity belt lock up. It probably seems obvious once you’re told, but lots of folks don’t realize that getting locked in a chastity device is a lot like wearing a rubber glove non-stop. That can get pretty messy and unhealthy, if you’re not careful about hygiene, so it’s important to be able to keep yourself clean.
Cotton swabs are one of the two essential tools used to clean one’s genitals when they’re all locked up. Most male chastity belts have some kind of small air holes big enough to allow the cotton swab to stick in, roll it around and rub off any dirt, sweat, and general itchiness that may have accumulated in the device over the course of the day. They’re also helpful as a follow-up to using toilet paper to wipe down any urine remaining after peeing that has seeped towards the sides of the device, which is hard to get to with just toilet paper alone.You can use a hair dryer to finish the whole drying process.
Unlike what you may have heard elsewhere, it’s a good idea to keep your genitals as dry as possible without drying out your skin. One way to help do this is to use cotton swabs to dry off the inside of the device as much as possible after taking showers, swimming, or otherwise wetting the device (such as, say, dripping lots of precum during a sexy scene where you remained locked). This is because in such a small and confined area, stagnant moisture like that is your skin’s worst enemy. This holds doubly true for people with especially sensitive skin (such as yours truly).
On the flip side, you may find yourself getting dry skin on occasion, such as what might happen if you over-wash with harsh soap. In these cases, put a drop of your favorite moisturizing cream on the tip of the cotton swab and apply it to your genitals. At first it might be hard to maneuver the cotton swab to the right places, but you’ll soon learn how to roll and twist it just right—well, right for cleaning, anyway.
Along with the cotton swab thing, I find that the other absolutely essential tool for hygienic long-term chastity wear is a squeeze bottle with a nozzle small enough to maneuver just inside the holes of the device. A specialized shower head can also do the trick. What you’re after is a high-pressure stream of water that you can aim with precision.
You put a drop of moisturizing body wash in the squeeze bottle, fill it with water, shake it up a bit, and then squeeze the water into the CB through its various holes. Lather, rinse, repeat a few times, then lather, rinse and repeat some more without the soap. This pushes water and soap all the way through the tube cleaning. Combine this with the cotton swab tip for a thorough cleaning! Do not forget to use the hair dryer after the great cleaning!
This is how it’s possible to stay so clean for so long without ever removing the device!
I found a cigarette at my slave's place today. I surprisingly learnt that he is a smoker. I ordered him to hold the cigarette with his ass cheeks. I then lighted a cigarette but the smell is very obnoxious smell made me wanna puke. I immediately put out it by smashing it on his butt.
One European entrepreneur invited me to his big office in Shanghai for SM education on a cold day in winter. He has very sensitive nipples and I played them for hours and the way in which his nipples reacted is very amusing. A splendid prostate milking to end the education is even more exciting at the risk of being interruped by his employees because he told me that his assistants can knock the door to ask for his signature at any time!
Knowlege about prostate milking
The prostate is a walnut-sized organ inside the rectum and just under the bladder. It wraps around the urethra, the tube that drains urine from the bladder.
Milking the prostate involves massaging it with lubricated fingers until it produces a thin, milky fluid called prostate fluid.
The person receiving the massage may have a very intense orgasm or feel an unusual sensation followed by fluid from the penis.
There is a farm of chicken, cows and rabbits. There are no disabled animals. There are 79 heads in total, 220 legs in total. The number of rabbits is 3. Tell me the right quantity of chicken and quantity of cows within 200 seconds so that I can release from your chastity cage.
$30 to play the game.
A pain slut is someone who enjoys physical pain and/or humiliation to great extremes; usually a submissive, but not in all cases.
What caused my Canadian slave to enjoy receiving pain? This should date back to his childhood. He was a mischievous boy so he often got his parents angry. His father often beats him to make him behave, which slowly puts him in fear. When his father is around him, he feels father is like a ticking bomb which could explode at any time. He feels incredibly nervous and anxious before beating happens. Waiting for the beating tortures him much more than actually being beaten. He gets tranquility right after receving a good beating because he knows it keeps him away from the fear and anxiety.
choose the assignment based on your level of experience, comfort, and how safe you feel:
Semi-public tasks:
wear thin layer bra/pantyhose/female panties beneath male outfits to work/public place
Public tasks:
apply colorful nail polish on nails and show them in public
buy and wear highheels/female outfit/earrings in public
carry female handbags
show sissy-related tattoos in public
The 35-year old American sissy met a 50ish Mistress for a BDSM session before he became my chastity slave.
The session was held in an obsolete house in a small town in Europe. He put all his stuff, including cellphone in another room before he was handcuffed naked to two big columns in this room, which was empty except for two big columns standing in the corner. Mistress carried the handcuff keys on herself. All of a sudden, she had a heart attack and fell on the floor, which was about 4 meters away from him.
Guess what he did to survive?
8-9days to finish production after slave submits payment and measurements.
Mistress Alessandra will instruct you how to measure for this cage.
139 USD for slow delivery (20-30 Days)
179 USD for fast delivery (2-6 Days)
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