How Did Kinkisters Get Into BDSM In China?

I am dominant kinkister Alessandra in shanghai. 

I realized that I have a very dominant character when I was 8 years old. I come from a family where my lame father dominates and mother submits. I do not get on well with my dominant father since childhood.

I like to boss boys around. I like to set up rules for my fellow boy students when I was in school. I met first slave from Belgium in 2008 from a SM website and started my professional dominatrix career that time.

Till now, I have dominated over 450 slaves from all over the world. I certainly enjoyed my exciting adventures over the past 15 years.

E-stim Electro CBT Allows Male Slaves To Cum Without Hands

A perfect combination of pain and pleasure is the penis e-stim remote control session.

Slave sets up the estim equipment and send me the link of the remote control pannel so that I can e stim control his dick on the other side of the earth. Placing 1 electrode at the cock tip and the other 1 electrode at the ball usually works for most male slaves.  I usually e-stim edge male slave 3-4 times before I push him to the intense orgasm finally.

The e-stim equipment has over 15 controllable modes for stimulation. 

The equipment is very safe. With output channel isolation, built-in power limiting, and soft start controls (they always start at zero whenever you change a mode or switch the unit on), together with a design ethos that stresses safety at every stage. The e-stim tool has been designed to be compliant with all of the major US, UK, and European safety standards, and carries UKCA & CE marks.

Dominatrix Alessandra is your shanghai therapist.

Email mistress@doctor.com for a in-person or online e-stim control session 

Some potential benefits of e-stim control include:

1. Pain relief: E-stim control can help alleviate acute and chronic pain by blocking pain signals and promoting the release of endorphins, the body's natural painkillers.

2. Muscle rehabilitation: E-stim control can stimulate weakened or atrophied muscles, helping to improve muscle strength, range of motion, and overall function.

3. Nerve stimulation: E-stim control can target specific nerves to improve their function, which can be beneficial for conditions such as peripheral neuropathy or nerve injuries.

4. Increased blood circulation: Electrical stimulation can enhance blood flow to the targeted area, promoting healing and reducing inflammation.

5. Reduced muscle spasms: E-stim control can help relax muscles and reduce spasms, providing relief for conditions such as muscle strains or spasmodic disorders.

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Beyond Relaxation: My Journey to the Best Massage in Shanghai

 Over the years, I’ve been massaged by countless slaves who step into my BDSM world with one mission: to serve. Each session begins with a ritual massage—be it body or foot—that establishes the power dynamic and sets a focused, intentional tone. This ritual is far more than a warm-up; it's a gateway into the session, a space where my submissive demonstrates devotion through touch.

Before each BDSM session, I require my submissive or slave to begin by massaging my body or feet—a ritual of service that helps set the tone. I encourage them to explore their own techniques, giving them a chance to express creativity within the boundaries of submission. However, if their performance falls short, I provide precise instructions to correct their approach. This balance of improvisation and guidance not only reinforces their focus on my satisfaction but also deepens their sense of purpose and dedication in serving me fully.

It’s always fascinating to watch each new submissive express their unique style and approach. Some begin tentatively, as if gauging my every reaction, while others dive in with a confidence that can sometimes feel bold, but ultimately, I remind them to be intentional with each stroke. For those who lack confidence or skill, I guide them through it, teaching them the rhythm, pressure, and intuition required to bring their service up to my standards.

The ritual is transformative, creating a foundation of trust and respect that carries through the rest of our interaction. For many, this service allows them to transcend the ordinary, to reach a deeper level of surrender and purpose. For me, it’s a beautiful blend of control and connection, where both skill and devotion blend to create an unforgettable experience, one session at a time.