Thursday, September 30, 2021

Pros & Cons of Living And Working In Suzhou

Suzhou is located in the south of Jiangsu province, some 50 miles west of Shanghai, along the old Grand Canal with a history of 2500 years. Suzhou is a new tier-1 city with a population of about 12 million people. The city is famous for gardens, embroidery & crabs.

Pros: 

Easy Acess to western products & International restaurants

There are many western supermakets and shops in Suzhou so it is easy to get western products. You can find not only chinese food but also Indian food, Thai food, Malaysian food, Persian food, Greek food, Turkish food, French food, Italian food, Spanish food, American food here. 


Low crime rate

I am a single chinese woman. I feel safe no matter where I go in suzhou, even in late night.


Easy to travel in & around Suzhou

There are four railway stations in Suzhou that offer advanced bullet trains and ordinary trains to nearby cities and beyond. They connect Suzhou by rail to Shanghai, Beijing, Hangzhou, Nanjing, Wuxi, and other cities. Suzhou has a well developed public transportation system. Currently there are 6 metro lines, 2 tram lines. Public buses routes run into all parts of the city. It is easy to get a cab both online and offline.


 Affordable apartments & houses, much cheaper than that in Shanghai/Beijing/Shenzhen/Guangzhou

Average rent price for 1 bedroom apartment ranges from 3000CNY to 5000CNY depending on location in Suzhou.

Average rent price for 2 bedroom apartment ranges from 4000CNY to 7000CNY depending on location in Suzhou.


many good international schools for you to select

Etonhouse, Dulwich, Nord Anglia, Singapore International School, North America High School, Duke University, UWC



Full of Chinese culture

Downtown is filled with historical buildings, temples and pagoda. It is worth to explore the intangle cultural heritage in Suzhou.



Cons:

Air quality worse than western cities

Air pollution gets bad from time to time because there are many factories here. In early 2021, the air quality in Suzhou was classified as “Unhealthy” with a US AQI reading of 163. This is according to the recommended figures from the World Health Organisation (WHO). The recorded levels of the pollutants were as follows: PM2.


No Airport

When you need to travel internationally, you have to travel to Shanghai or Wuxi to take the flight, which can be a bit of hassel.


Traffic jams during rush hours

During rush hours (mornings 7am-9:00am) (evenings 5pm-6pm) traffic is very congested.


VPN is a must.

Global websites like facebook, instagram, youtube, twitter are blocked in Suzhou so you must install a VPN on mobile/PC to browse those websites. 


Conclusion:

Suzhou is one of the very livable cities to live and work in China taking everything into account.









Wednesday, September 29, 2021

Virtual/Digital Key Holding Demonstation Video for Chastity Slaves

Your attempt to damage the lock with metal cutting tools triggers the APP to send me warnings. When I authorize you to unlock, the APP will tell me when you actually unlock your chastity. Without my authorization in the APP, you will not be able to unlock.
This key holding applies to any chastity device/ handcuffs/collar.


Tuesday, September 28, 2021

Sissy Poll: My slave goes out like this at 5K views

I have a long term sissy who is very bashful. I call him Fiona. He has been crossdressing behind the doors for over 1 year. He is still not bold enough to step out of his door in his sexy sissy look.

This poll is gonna encourage him to make it happen. He goes out like this when this post hits 5000 views. I know it is both super exciting and scaring for him!  



Monday, September 27, 2021

Top Design Custom Chastity Belt Questions & Answers

What parts can be custom made?

As you can see, all parts can be custom made. the belt waist, the belt length, the dick tube girth, the dick tube length and even the holes on dick tube & pee hole can all be custom made to fit you perfectly. The holes on dick tube can be 1-4 in general. Name engraving on the belt within 8 letters does not cost extra.


What material is the custom chastity belt made of?

Front part is made of high strength nylon and back straps are made of TPH. But before making final chastity belt,  workshop makes a plastic sizing/fitting mold first which is made of average plastic to help wearer find perfect fitting.

How much does the chastity belt cost?

If you waist is below 80cm

black color belt costs 3300CNY

white color belt costs 3550CNY

If you waist is over 80cm ~105cm

black color belt costs 3600CNY

white color belt costs 3850CNY

Air mailimg fee twice to major countries (3-6days) in total 2600-2700CNY


How to buy this custom chastity belt?

The offline workshop only sell domestically in China so the only way is you pay me in major currency USD/EUR/GBP/AUD/CAD/SGD then I pay workshop in CNY. I ship the fitting model & chastity belt to your country when they are ready. You can pay me a tribute or order my keyholding service to reciprocate my efforts in getting the belt for you.

Deposit is 60% of total expense should be paid when placing the order. Balance is 40% of total expense should be paid after you get adjustable chastity mold. 

How does it lock?

As you can see, it locks on the back in the center of waist area.


Where is the pee hole?

It is at the bottom of the cock tube. The size can be made according to your requirement.




Can the wearer change the mini lock?

Of course. A mini metal lock is offered in the order of custom chastity belt. You can buy any lock to replace the mini lock.


How does workshop ensure final chastity belt fit the wearer perfectly?

After I place the order and submit slave's measurements, it takes workshop 8-9 days to make a fitting model. Fitting model's appearance is similar to final chastity belt but made of hard plastic and it is not one piece. You need to put several pieces together and assemble them to put it on to adjust it until it fits you perfectly. Send the workshop a picture of you in perfect fitting status. 3D printer will print out the final chastity belt based on the picture. If it still doesn't fit, you give feedback on how you want the final printed belt to be modified! That is how fitting model works to ensure final belt fits you perfectly!


How does it prevent the wearer from escaping?

The wearer wears the belt at waist area which is definitely above hipbones. He can not lower the belt to escape because he is locked up in perfect snug size unless he cracks his own hip bones. It is common sense that chastity belts function much better than chastity cages in terms of anti-escaping.


How does the wearer clean the belt?

You do not need to take off the belt to clean it. Cleaning toolkit is included in the order of this custom chastity belt. You will be given an empty bottle with a nozzle. You can fill the bottle with water to clean the belt.


How long does it take the wearer to receive the belt?

In general it takes less than 8weeks after you make payment and submit measurements. There could be a small delay for parcel delivery if your or my city is going through covid lockdown or some natural desaster like snow storm.


Will others notice my belt?

Any kind of pants can hide it well. It is smoother than your natural shape, and flatter than many "shemale" style or steel chastity belts. It is also more concealing than most small chastity cages and belts.


What countries can this chastity belt be sent to?

I have consulted this shipping carrier.In General, shipping to Europe, USA, Canada and Australia is not a problem.

Recently slave from USA subscribed to my 3-month chastity keyholding package and another slave from Canada subscribed to my 2-month keyholding so I helped both of them to get this awesome custom chastity belt!







Saturday, September 25, 2021

Femdom Poll: How Long Should No. 322 chastity sissy wear cage for Mistress?

 

A: 3days

B: 1 Week

C: 2 Weeks

D: 1month

Cast your vote in the comment

Got A Custom Male Chastity Belt From Workshop for My Slave

After my slave tried out all types of chastity cages, he has decided to get a custom chastity belt for long term training.





We had a look at some European chastity websites. The price of a custom made chastity belt ranges from 1000 to 5000euro, which is outrageously expensive. A friend ordered a neosteel chastity belt and he waited nearly 3 months to receive it! Another friend used a fancysteel chastity belt and he waited 21 weeks to get it! Unbelievable! I do not think we can wait that long! Besides long waiting time, the heaviness of the metal material made us give up the option of getting a metal belt!

Then we shift our focus to chinese market. When we were travelling in wuxi, China, we found a workshop specializing in making custom made chastity belts. They only produce 1 style of chastity belts but there are 2 material options. You can select either resin or sturdy nylon. Before they manufacture it, they send us a picture guide to instruct my slave how to measure for the chastity belt. It usually takes them 30-60days to make it. We got 1 made of resin after about 46days and the price is 3300CNY which was about 510USD. It is pretty light as it only weighs 150g. The special part is the backside is made of slightly softer material called TPH so that slave can sit down comfortably. You might have a body shape change over time, it still can fit you perfectly. 

I and my slave both are very satisfied with this chastity belt and he has been in thus belt for over 2 years now.

Price Info

I have been getting a lot of email asking about this TPU chastity belt. I need to mention 1 important thing is that the workshop can only produce chastity belt with waist not exceeding 105cm. Fitting Model and Cleaning Tool Kit are included in the price of chastity belt.

Style A TPU Chastity Belt


Deposit is 60% of total expense should be paid when placing the order. Balance is 40% of total expense should be paid after you get adjustable chastity mold. 

Name engraving on the belt within 8 letters is free of charge. Extra fee will be charged if exceeds 8 letters.


What method is used to ensure final chastity belt fit you perfectly?

After I place the order and submit slave's measurements, it takes workshop 8-9 days to make a fitting model/mold. Fitting model's appearance is similar to final chastity belt but made of hard plastic and it is not one piece. You need to put several pieces together and assemble them to put it on to adjust it until it fits you perfectly. Send the workshop 2 pictures of you in perfect fitting status(front and back). 3D printer will print out the final chastity belt based on the picture. If it still doesn't fit, you give feedback on how you want the final printed belt to be modified! That is how fitting model works to ensure final belt fits you perfectly!

                   I am holding an adjustable fitting model/mold

Slave wears adjustable fitting mold to find perfect fitting




Cleaning toolkit and accessories


discreet and double protection packaging foam box filled with foam balls + carton

Update on December 7, 2021

Helped a slave in Netherlands to get this belt. I am so glad he got this belt in perfect fitting and intact condition after 58days. He is now my No.400 chastity slave! I first instructed him to measure correctly for the belt and then it took workshop 8-9days to produce a plastic fitting model. Then it took fedex 8-9days to ship the fitting model to Holland. If the plastic fitting model didn't fit him perfectly, he would have to give feedback on sizing so that the workshop can make final product of perfect size. It will take workshop about 21days to make final product. Afterwards it will take fedex 8-9days to ship final product to Netherlands.


Update on Jan 6, 2022

Today 1 slave from USA subscribed to my 3-month chastity keyholding package and another slave from Canada subscribed to my 2-month keyholding so I helped both of them to get this awesome custom chastity belt!


Update on Feb.10, 2022

1 German slave from Frankfurt sent me a tribute so I helped me to order this chastity belt.


Update on Feb.16, 2022

Helped 1 Dutch slave from Pijnacker to get this chastity belt.


Update on March. 04, 2022

1 slave from London, UK subscribed to my 6-month chastity keyholding and another slave from California, USA subscribed to 1-month keyholding so I helped both of them to get this access denied chastity belt.



Update on April. 14, 2022

Shipped a custom male chastity belt to Texas, USA.


Update on April. 15, 2022

Sent out 2 chastity belts to Sydney, Australia.



Update on May 25, 2022

Shipped an oval pee hole chastity belt to Hamburg, Germany


Update on May. 20, 2022

Workshop launched new material version : custom TPU chastity belt.  Compared with old version high strength nylon belt, TPU material is softer. As you can see from the pic, the side waist and back parts are made of TPU. The middle front and cage part are made of high strength nylon. TPU material has below advantages: 

High elasticity across the entire hardness range.

Excellent low-temperature and impact strength.

Resilience to oils, greases and numerous solvents.

Good flexibility over a wide temperature range.


Update on June. 19, 2022

Two More Slaves From New York & Washington Ordered This Comfortable Chastity Belt For Long Term Chastity Training

    Slave wears adjustable mold to find the right size before new TPU belt gets produced


Update on July. 31st , 2022
Ship custom TPU chastity belt to slave in Chicago

Update on August. 28, 2022

Slave in Los Angeles ordered custom chastity belt in old style nylon.


Update on September. 16, 2022

Slave in Australia received the chastity mold before he gets the chastity belt.


Update on September 19, 2022

Slave in South Korea got engraved Chastity Belt


Update on November 20th, 2023

Sub in Canada ordered style A chastity belt


Update on September 10th, 2024

1 Sub in Netherlands, 2 subs in France, 1 sub in Germany and 2 subs in USA ordered style A chastity belt.




This 3D printed shield chastity belt is a custom-fitted and lightweight, yet inescapable chastity device–no piercing required. This chastity belt supports both internal and external locks.

Style B Shield Chastity Belt



Style C Ball Ring Chastity Belt





Style D Hentai Chastity Belt





This 3D printed hentai chastity belt is a custom-fitted and lightweight, yet inescapable chastity device–no piercing required. 



Update on December 3rd, 2022

Bought ball ring chastity belt for American Chaste. 


Update on December. 18, 2022

Got 2 shield chastity belts for slaves in United States.


Update on December 29, 2022

Bought 2 ball ring chastity belts for chastes in Belgium and Netherlands


Update on Jan, 5, 2023

Chastity Extra Customization Is Available!

We made an extra buttplug supporting plate which can be attached on ball ring chastity belt for slaves in United States!


Update on May.15, 2023

Got 2 chastity belts for slaves in United States.


Update on August. 28, 2023

Got 2 chastity belts for slaves in Canada & Germany.


Update on August. 28, 2023

Got 2 chastity belts for slaves in USA &  Canada



Frequently Asked Questions & Answers About This Chastity Belt


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Tuesday, September 21, 2021

Free Chastity Key Holding for the NO.1000 slave

I have been offering remote key holding for slaves worldwide.

No matter where they are, I can control their chastity as long as they have internet connection. I use the best key holder APP which allows me to control any chastity cage or device. My slaves get to unlock the cage when I send them permission via the APP, otherwise they can't.

I have successfully controlled the chastity of 321 slaves by Sept. 22nd, 2021

By the time I have 1000 chastity slaves, I am gonna offer the no. 1000 free chastity key holding for life time.

Wednesday, September 15, 2021

Crossdressing Training Tips: How to become more feminine for sissy subs

1 Apparels

Besides wearing typical women underwear and dresses, you have to make sure the feminine garment you wear complies with your age bracket.


2 Makeup

You have makeup but still you look so masculine. Make sure you thoroughly remove all your facial hair. Thin eyebrows always can help you look more feminine so pull out some eyebrows or trim your eyebrows into very thin line shape. Draw a delicate eyeliner, put more eyelashes and coat your eyelashes with mascara. If you have very masculine face shape, do wear a long hair wig to make your face better shaped. Male foreheads are typically larger than females’. Better wear a wig with proper bang to make your forehead look smaller.


3 Posture

Get rid of your old manly posture. Start to walk/move in the feminine way. Practice to walk in slightly high heels often. Don't forget to wiggle your hip during walking.


4 Body Care

Apply hair removal cream to remove all the unnecessary body hair. Apply body scrub to remove dead skin to finally renew and smooth your skin.

Monday, September 13, 2021

Sissy Task Training FAQ for All Levels of Submissive Sissy Slaves

If you are a beginner sissy, you can start with elementary sissy training package which will slowly take away your manhood and mold you into the proper sissy Mistress desires. If you are already a sissy with some experience,  follow my professional advice and take challenging sissy tasks in the intermediate sissy training package which will teach you everything you need to know to be a sophisticated sissy in daily life.

Below are some frequently asked questions about my sissy training package

1 I have limits when it comes to (specify your hard limits here)…is that OK?

Yes. Everyone has limits and those can be discussed. I will push you to explore new things but will always respect hard limits that are discussed at the beginning.


 2 What does the training package include?

The training package includes 

(1) Daily interaction with your dominatrix-me

(2) 10 tailor-made sissy tasks based on your level of experience

(3) Professional advice & tips to help you achieve sissfication related goals.


3 How long does the training package last?

The basic package lasts for 10 consecutive days. If you look for long term sissy training, mention that when you contact me by email. The package can be custom made to long term need.

4 How much does the training package cost?

Email mistress@doctor.com to find out 


Sunday, September 12, 2021

ключ целомудрия Мужской целомудрия ремень бондаж закрывающаяся клетка для птиц

 I locked 4 russian slaves remotely up in chastity cage last week so russia now is added to my online chastity key holding kingdom.

I locked 1st slave up in chastity cage in 2008


I have been a reliable key holder for over 230 slaves over the past 13 years.

Countries I have conquered : USA/Canda/UK/Germany/Spain/France/Switzerland/Holland/Portugal/ Italy/Belgium/Australia/New Zealand/Singpoare/China/Japan/ Norway/Russia

I hope I can conquer over 30 countries by 2025


Saturday, September 11, 2021

CEI JOI SPH Chastity Locking Skype Session with World Cruel Dominatrix

SPH, JOI, CEI Chastity Skype Sessions with Asian Mistress are pretty hot.
No free sessions.
Serious slaves can add my skype mistress@doctor.com


Friday, September 10, 2021

Fetish for Feet Tickling Pictures

More and more male subs buy feet tickle pictures from me in recent years. This fetish has become much more popular.

email mistress@doctor.com for feet tickling pictures. Rate will depend on the quantity you need. 

Friday, September 3, 2021

Chastikey Chronovault Emlalock Better Alternative Keyholder APP

Chastikey will shut down in 2022. Chronovault is way too expensive (It sells at 499 euro ). Emlalock is sometimes unstable so I find you a better alternative which is the remote lock solution.

The remote lock comes with a mighty key holder APP.

After I set up the remote lock, you can only unlock when I give you authorization via the APP, otherwise you can not! I can set up different levels of clearance. It also allows me to give different types of authorization such as one time, timed, fixed time per day and permanent. Don't ever try to break/damage the remote lock with great force, I will receive warning notification in the APP so I know what you did to the lock. If I keep your access to the lock and each time you unlock the remote lock, I get a notification in the APP so I know when you unlock.

book chastity training email me at mistress@doctor.com



Thursday, September 2, 2021

I Become The Dominant Lady In A Misogynistic Family

I grow up in a family where my father is dominant and my mother is submissive. However, I never lose confidence and dominance even though I was awashing in daily belittlement from my misogynist and beta loser father. He tried to shame me into conforming to his narrow views of femininity. I am sorry for him because his brainwashing on me never works!

Instead, I embraced my strength and my power. I became a dominant girl, unafraid to take charge and assert myself in any situation. I refused to let anyone else define or limit me based on my gender.

You may wonder why I did not become a submissive like my mother. It is possible to question self-value when you spent your childhood with such a misogynist and dictator father. I think partly because dominance is in my blood and partly because I had the right judgment when I was 7 or 8 years old which was I realized he is a total loser.

BDSM Experience with domina Alessandra

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