I got inspiration from a slave who likes metal and chain stuff so I created the tool below.
I am Chinese Femdom Queen Alessandra.
This tool is portable so I can take it with me to my bdsm outcalls to slave's hosting place.
It can tighten slave's neck and hold his head high and I will use it together with other bondage tools such as heavy chains, handcuffs. It will make you feel I have taken complete control of your body. The total surrender makes you feel sensual and excited!
When it comes to tickling, the best "toys" are often those that are gentle, versatile, and can be used safely within the bounds of consent and comfort. Here are some options:
Feather Ticklers: Feather ticklers are soft and gentle tools that can be used to lightly brush against the skin, particularly in sensitive areas. They provide a subtle and teasing sensation that many people find enjoyable.
Silicone or Rubber Tipped Brushes: These brushes have soft silicone or rubber tips that can be used to lightly stroke and tickle the skin. They offer a gentle and tactile sensation that can be adjusted based on pressure and speed.
Soft Fabric or Furry Materials: Soft fabrics or furry materials like faux fur can be used to create gentle tickling sensations. These materials can be incorporated into various toys or simply used as a tactile tool for light stroking.
Electric Tickling Devices: Some specialized devices are designed specifically for tickling, using gentle electric pulses to stimulate the skin. These devices often come with adjustable settings to customize the intensity of the sensation.
Tickle Gloves or Mitts: Tickle gloves or mitts have soft, tickling textures on the fingertips, allowing the wearer to explore different sensations and tickle gently.
Bristle Brushes: Soft bristle brushes, such as makeup brushes, can be used to lightly tickle and stimulate the skin. They offer a gentle and versatile option for exploring tickling sensations.
Water-Based Lubricants or Massage Oils: Using water-based lubricants or massage oils can enhance the sensation of tickling by reducing friction and creating a smooth glide across the skin.
When choosing tickling toys, it's important to prioritize safety, comfort, and consent. Communicate openly with your partner about preferences, boundaries, and any sensitivities they may have. Additionally, always ensure that any toys or materials used for tickling are clean and hygienic to prevent irritation or infection.
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I used a tongue depressor to depress my patient slave's tongue so that I could check his mouth and teeth. I suppose it is a good result as I did not find any decayed teeth.
I gave my patient slave an incredibly thorough body inspection. Strap on some gloves and have him strip in front of me. Grope, prod, squeeze and measure any part of him I find interesting. I told him to adopt a particular position when I want to get a thorough look at his genitals which is on his bed with his feet in exam stirrups.
Knowledge about medical play
Medical play is a type of role-play scenario where bdsm partners take on the roles of medical professionals and, in most cases, their patients. Typically medical play involves a dominant partner, who plays the role of a medical professional treating her/his submissive patient. Medical play can be an aspect of medical fetishism.
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I am dominatrix Alessandra, the queen of fetish and kink. I dominate men in Shanghai, where the East meets the West, there exists a world that thrives on the unconventional and the taboo. I am a vision of power and beauty, with long flowing hair and piercing eyes that can see into the depths of one's soul. My mere presence commands respect and submission from all who dare to enter my world.
One day, a slave from Chicago approached me and confessed his deepest desires for a foot and spitting fetish session, and begged for my acceptance of his peculiar request. Without hesitation, I agreed to indulge his fantasies and meet him at his hotel in central shanghai.
As I entered his hotel room, I could sense his anticipation and nervousness. I towered over him, a striking figure in my leather attire and sky-high stilettos. With a flick of my wrist, I ordered him to kneel before me and worship my feet.
His tongue traced the delicate arches of my feet. I could see the desire in his eyes as he begged for more, his breath quickening with each touch of my toes against his lips.
But it was not just my feet that he craved. The slave longed for the ultimate act of submission – to be spat upon by his mistress. Without hesitation, I smiled, releasing a stream of saliva that landed on his quivering lips.
The slave moaned in ecstasy, surrendering himself fully to the sensations that engulfed him. In that moment, he was no longer a mere mortal but a willing servant to my every order.
As the session came to an end, I released the slave from his bindings, his body trembling with satisfaction and longing for more. He thanked me profusely for fulfilling his darkest desires, knowing that he had experienced a taste of true submission under the guidance of Dominatrix Alessandra.
I am your dominant owner behind the chair.
In the vibrant landscape of BDSM across China, one experience stands out for its depth of exploration and emotional resonance: pegging. As a dominatrix who has had the privilege of strapping on and pegging over 300 western men throughout major cities like Shanghai, Hangzhou, Nanjing, Suzhou, Wuxi, and Beijing, I’ve witnessed firsthand the transformative power of this intimate act.
What Draws Men to Pegging?
The appeal of pegging for men is multifaceted, touching on aspects of vulnerability, trust, and sexual liberation. For many, it represents a chance to explore parts of their sexuality that may have been previously stifled by societal expectations or personal inhibitions.
Vulnerability and Surrender: Pegging allows men to experience vulnerability in a way that feels safe and consensual. The act of being penetrated can be disarming, breaking down barriers and fostering a deep connection between partners. This experience often leads to emotional catharsis, allowing men to confront and embrace their own desires.
Exploration of Gender Roles: In a world where traditional masculinity is often rigid and limiting, pegging offers an avenue for men to step outside those confines. Engaging in pegging allows them to challenge conventional notions of masculinity, exploring their sexuality without fear of judgment. This playful subversion can be incredibly liberating.
Physical Sensation: The physical sensations involved in pegging are unique and can be intensely pleasurable. Many men report discovering new erogenous zones and experiencing orgasms that feel different from traditional sexual encounters. The prostate, often dubbed the “male G-spot,” can be a source of intense pleasure, leading to mind-blowing orgasms that redefine their understanding of pleasure.
Trust and Intimacy: The act of pegging requires a high level of trust between partners. It fosters an environment where communication and consent are paramount. This trust can enhance intimacy, allowing couples to connect on deeper emotional levels. Many men find that the experience strengthens their relationships, creating a bond that transcends physicality.
Breaking Taboos: Engaging in pegging can feel like a rebellious act against societal norms. For many men, the thrill of stepping into uncharted territory, defying expectations, and embracing their fantasies can be exhilarating. This element of taboo can heighten arousal and add an exciting layer to their sexual experiences.
My Experiences Across China
Traveling across China for pegging sessions has given me a unique perspective on how cultural attitudes towards sex and BDSM vary from city to city. In bustling metropolises like Shanghai and Beijing, the underground BDSM scene is thriving, with a diverse community of participants eager to explore. Meanwhile, in smaller cities like Wuxi and Suzhou, the experience can be more subdued, with individuals often approaching pegging with a sense of curiosity and nervous excitement.
Regardless of the location, the common thread remains: men are seeking deeper connections with their desires. Each session has its unique rhythm, shaped by the individual’s fantasies and boundaries, and my role as a dominatrix is to facilitate that exploration in a safe, consensual manner.
Pegging is more than just a sexual act; it’s an opportunity for self-discovery and empowerment. As I continue my journey through the BDSM landscape in China, I remain committed to guiding men as they navigate their desires, helping them break free from societal constraints and embrace their true selves. Whether it’s in a high-rise apartment in Shanghai or a cozy space in Hangzhou, the appeal of pegging transcends boundaries, opening doors to new levels of pleasure and intimacy.
I am Dominatrix Alessandra.
I like wearing suits so designing a suit fetish session is right up my alley.
I am 168cm with 49kg so you can imagine my slender figure in a business suit.
I designed below scenario where I play the female boss of a French man in Shanghai.
I took off my shades and ordered him to give me a shoulder massage but he did a lousy job so I said，"You kneel." I then gagged him with his tie. I quickly pull out my brown leather belt to whip his butt right after I made him kneel with my long boots.
The rest is for you to create with your vivid imagination.
My tailor mom can make open crotch, snap crotch, footed pajama styles
Many paw patrol pattern choices
custom size
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What is a BDSM cane and how is it used in BDSM play?
A BDSM cane is a tool or instrument used in BDSM play to deliver pain and pleasure to the submissive partner. It is typically made of a sturdy and flexible material like bamboo or rattan and can have different lengths and thicknesses depending on the desired intensity. The dominant partner may use the cane to strike various areas of the body like the buttocks, thighs, or back, to induce pain sensations that may trigger pleasure responses. Proper use of a BDSM cane requires consent, communication, and a mutual understanding of each partner's boundaries and preferences.
What are the different types of BDSM canes available and how do they differ?
There are several types of BDSM canes available for those who enjoy this type of play. Different types of canes include rattan, bamboo, carbon fiber, and acrylic. Rattan canes are traditional and lightweight, while bamboo canes are sturdier and provide a more intense sensation. Carbon fiber canes are very durable and provide a sharp, but not too painful sensation. Lastly, acrylic canes are smooth, and heavy, and can provide a thudding sensation that some people enjoy. It is important to note that all canes should be used responsibly and with consent.
Are there any safety guidelines that should be followed when using a BDSM cane in play?
Yes, there are safety guidelines that should be followed when using a BDSM cane in play. First and foremost, communication and consent are key. It's important to establish clear boundaries and safe words before beginning play. Additionally, the person wielding the cane should be properly trained and experienced to avoid accidentally causing injury. Start with lighter strokes and gradually increase the intensity to avoid unexpected pain. Lastly, it's important to check the cane for any cracks or defects before using it to ensure it's in good condition.