As a Professional Dominatrix in Shanghai, I have encountered many interesting and unique individuals throughout my career. One of the most memorable experiences I had was meeting my first slave in 2009 who just relocated to Shanghai from Belgium. We got to know each other through a BDSM website called Collarme, which later changed its name to Collarspace. Unfortunately, the website is no longer active, but the memories of that fateful meeting still linger in my mind.
I remember vividly how we talked for a week before deciding to meet in real life in Shanghai. There was a sense of excitement and anticipation as I awaited his arrival. When he finally showed up, he immediately captured my attention by showing me his credit cards with his real name on it. It was a bold move on his part, but it was also a gesture of trust that I appreciated.
He invited me to Mr and Mrs Bund for dinner, a popular restaurant in the city known for its exquisite cuisine and elegant atmosphere. As we sat down at our table, I could sense the tension in the air, a mix of nerves and excitement as we began to delve into our respective roles – me as the Dominatrix, and him as my willing submissive.
He had been previously trained by a dominatrix in Amsterdam, came to me seeking a new level of submission and obedience. Throughout the course of the evening, we engaged in deep conversations about our desires, boundaries, and expectations. It was a great meeting of minds. By the end of the night, I had completed a nice vomiting session and a bond had been formed between us that transcended mere physical attraction. It was a connection built on trust, mutual respect, and a shared understanding of our roles in this unconventional D/s dynamic.
As I look back on that night, I can't help but feel grateful for the experience and the lessons it taught me about the complexities of power dynamics and human relationships. Meeting my first slave was not just a moment in time; it was the beginning of a journey that would shape my career and my understanding of myself as a Professional Dominatrix.