Chastity Guide: Useful Tips For Chastes To Succeed In Chastity Training

 Shave your pubic hair completely before attempting to put on any chastity device. Long hair will make the process hard and trapped hair will make you feel painful and can even tear the skin!

Baby oil is a cost-effective way to lubricate the chastity device and all of your bits and pieces before putting on the cage. Always have a small bottle of baby oil with you, the oil keeps things smooth and keeps any chafing from occurring

When it comes to moving around in your everyday life, tighter clothes are actually better, they keep the cage closer to your body and prevent things from moving around. This means less friction and less chance of developing blisters.

Provocative Scenario For The Brave Danish Expat In Shanghai

A couple of months ago, I received a session booking from a submissive Danish who expressed his deep desire to be shot. Intrigued by his extreme fantasy, I decided to craft a provocative scenario for him to experience.

I arrived at his hotel room near shanghai zhongshan park. I brought him a butler costume. He was then dressed as my butler, his eyes filled with anticipation and nervous excitement. He brought a silver tray adorned with a plate of caviar, thinking to please me with this luxurious delicacy.

However, as I inspected the contents of the tray, my displeasure became evident. I furrowed my brows and said in a cold, commanding tone, "What is this gelatinous muck? When I instruct you to prepare caviar, must I explicitly state that it should be of the highest quality, not this $9.99 fish bait? Caviar should be round, firm, and of generous size. It should explode in your mouth with exquisite flavor at precisely the right moment."

The submissive man's face fell as he realized his grave mistake. His failure to meet my expectations had left me with no choice but to discipline him for his incompetence. I quickly bind him, securing his hands and feet with unyielding ropes.

With a fierce gaze, I lectured him on the importance of obedience and attention to detail in serving his mistress. Despite his pleading eyes and trembling lips, I made up my mind to teach him a lesson he wouldn't soon forget.

As the sound of erotic music filled the room, I prepared myself to shoot the submissive man with a soft ball gun. I watched as he lost himself in the music, his heart racing with excitement and trepidation. And then, with a swift and calculated aim, I pulled the trigger.

The soft ball hit its target, sending a jolt of surprise and pleasure through the submissive man's body. He gasped as he realized what had happened, feeling a rush of adrenaline and ecstasy like never before.

From that day on, I am sure the submissive Danish man learned to never underestimate my power and authority. And as for me, I found myself captivated by the thrill of pushing boundaries and exploring new frontiers of pleasure and pain.

Dominatrix Video: Horse Riding in China

         You will be tamed like the black horse in the video by me!

Therapy For Expats Shanghai | BDSM Therapist | Kinky Therapy

 How much do kinksters have to accommodate the society by sacrificing their own desires and trying to “fit in?”

How far do kinksters push the limits on what society constitutes as a valid way to live their lives?

It is battle that tons of kinkster face. BDSM therapy, although controversial, has been proven to be a beneficial form of therapy for those who engage in kink practices. The necessariness of BDSM therapy lies in its ability to address underlying issues related to power dynamics, control, and intimacy. By using a combination of physical and psychological techniques, BDSM therapy provides a safe space for individuals to explore their desires and work through any emotional or psychological obstacles.

Benefits of BDSM Therapy

Enhanced Self-Awareness: Clients gain a deeper understanding of their desires, boundaries, and emotional triggers.

Stress Relief: Engaging in consensual BDSM activities can release endorphins, leading to stress relief and a sense of well-being.

Improved Communication: The emphasis on consent and negotiation in BDSM can enhance communication skills, both within and outside the therapeutic context.

Empowerment and Confidence: Exploring power dynamics can empower individuals, boosting their confidence and self-esteem.

Healing Trauma: For some, BDSM can provide a safe way to process and heal from past trauma, offering a sense of control and closure.

Enhanced Trust and Intimacy: Partners involved in BDSM therapy often experience a deepening of trust and intimacy due to the vulnerable nature of the activities.

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Ergonomic Stainless Steel Male Chastity Belts Cuckx For Sale

Stainless Steel Chastity Belt Cuckx1

Custom Size

Production time: 7~15days

Features: This custom stainless steel chastity belt for men is crafted to provide unparalleled security and comfort for long-term wear. The waistband features a soft stainless steel chain, designed to flex with your movements while ensuring a snug and comfortable fit, even during extended periods. For those seeking an added dimension of control, an optional buttplug attachment is available, enhancing both restraint and pleasure. The belt is fully lockable, ensuring it remains completely secure and inescapable, offering peace of mind and absolute confidence in its reliability. Whether for personal use or in a power exchange dynamic, this chastity belt is the ultimate choice for men who value both security and comfort.

Total Price:  

waist 70~79cm 

1099 euro or equivalent in other currency

wait 80cm or above 

1199 euro or equivalent in other currency

add a buttplug

extra 50euro

Update on August.23, 2024

Buyer in Singapore got the belt and he is very satisified!

Stainless Steel Chastity Belt Bombardier Global X

The Bombardier Global X, known for its luxurious design and advanced technology, can serve as an unconventional yet effective setting for enforced chastity training.  Bombardier Global X ensures that distractions are minimized, and focus is maintained on the training regimen, making it an ideal chastity device for those seeking an intense and exclusive experience in chastity discipline.

Total Price:  

waist 70~79cm 

859 euro or equivalent in other currency

wait 80cm or above 

899 euro or equivalent in other currency

Production time: 7~12days

Stainless Steel Chastity Belt Gulfstream V

The Gulfstream V with side locks offers several distinct advantages for users seeking enhanced security and comfort. The side lock design provides an extra layer of security by ensuring the lock is more discreet and less accessible, reducing the likelihood of tampering. Crafted from premium stainless steel, the Gulfstream V is both sturdy and hypoallergenic, providing durability and comfort while resisting rust over time. The custom fit of the belt ensures that it conforms perfectly to the wearer's body, minimizing discomfort and preventing unwanted movement, making it ideal for long-term wear. Additionally, the sleek design allows it to be worn discreetly under clothing, maintaining privacy while ensuring complete control. The buttplug option can be securely locked in place, ensuring it remains in position and cannot be removed without the key, which adds a layer of control and discipline for the wearer. 

Total Price:  

waist 70~79cm 

1499 euro or equivalent in other currency

wait 80cm or above 

1599 euro or equivalent in other currency

Addig lockable buttplug option

130euro extra charge

Production time: 7~12days

Stainless Steel Chastity Belt Falcon P

Total Price:  

waist 70~79cm 

1499 euro or equivalent in other currency

wait 80cm or above 

1599 euro or equivalent in other currency

Addig lockable buttplug option

130euro extra charge

Production time: 7~12days

Best Adult Entertainment Shanghai | Shanghai Adults Night Life

Shanghai is a city that never sleeps, offering an eclectic blend of culture, nightlife, and unique experiences that cater to all tastes. For expats looking to explore the city beyond its stunning skyline and bustling business districts, here’s your ultimate entertainment guide – from swanky bars to indulgent nightlife and even exclusive BDSM domination services.

1. Nightlife and Bars

Shanghai’s nightlife is world-class, blending international trends with a uniquely local flavor. Whether you’re looking for a laid-back pub, a swanky cocktail bar, or a high-energy club, there’s something for every mood.

Speak Low

Hidden behind a nondescript door, Speak Low is one of the best speakeasy bars in the city. With expertly crafted cocktails and a cozy ambiance, this bar is a must-visit for anyone who appreciates the art of mixology.

The Nest

For those who love a lively atmosphere with chic interiors and a great view, The Nest offers world-class cocktails and gourmet food. Located near the Bund, it's perfect for starting a night out in style.

Bar Rouge

If you're in the mood for a party, Bar Rouge offers a vibrant clubbing experience with a rooftop view of the iconic skyline. Known for its themed parties and stylish clientele, this is a favorite among the city’s expat community.

2. Cultural Experiences

Shanghai is rich in culture, blending its history with modernity. For expats, diving into these cultural experiences will provide an authentic taste of China.

The Bund

A walk along the Bund is a quintessential Shanghai experience. Here, you can marvel at the contrast between the historic colonial architecture and the modern skyscrapers across the river.

Yuyuan Garden

Escape the city’s hustle with a visit to this serene garden. The traditional Chinese architecture and landscaping offer a peaceful retreat right in the heart of Shanghai.

M50 Art District

Art lovers will enjoy this thriving contemporary art hub. Filled with galleries showcasing both local and international artists, M50 is a fantastic place to explore Shanghai’s creative scene.

3. Expat-Friendly Restaurants

Shanghai's culinary landscape is diverse, with everything from street food to Michelin-starred restaurants. Expats can find familiar tastes from home or dive into new culinary adventures.

Lost Heaven

Offering a twist on Yunnan cuisine, Lost Heaven is a hit with expats for its exotic flavors and gorgeous interior design. Perfect for a date night or group dinner.

Mr. Willis

If you’re craving Western comfort food, Mr. Willis delivers with its Mediterranean-inspired dishes. This rooftop restaurant in the French Concession is a cozy, relaxed spot to enjoy good food and wine.

Hai Di Lao Hot Pot

For an authentic local experience, you can’t miss Hai Di Lao. Known for its top-notch service and delicious hot pot, this chain is extremely popular among locals and expats alike.

4. BDSM and Fantasy Services

For those with a more adventurous side, Shanghai has a growing underground BDSM scene that caters to various fetishes and fantasies. Whether you are curious or experienced, Shanghai offers safe and discreet ways to explore your desires.

Exclusive BDSM Domination Experience

If you're seeking a unique, personalized experience, Shanghai's underground kink scene is waiting. I offer professional dominatrix services such as tailored BDSM/fetish sessions designed to explore specific fetishes, power dynamics, and fantasies.

5. Entertainment for the Adventurous

If you're looking for something off the beaten path, Shanghai has plenty to offer thrill-seekers and adventurers alike.

KTV (Karaoke)

For a uniquely Chinese experience, gather your friends for a night of KTV. These karaoke lounges are private, fully stocked with drinks, and come with everything you need to unleash your inner pop star. Popular among locals and expats alike, KTV is a guaranteed fun night out.

Adventure Parks and Virtual Reality

If you’re a fan of adrenaline-pumping activities, Shanghai has several indoor adventure parks and virtual reality gaming centers. You can climb, race, or battle zombies in VR, all without leaving the city.

6. Wellness and Relaxation

Life in Shanghai can get hectic, so it’s important to take time for relaxation and self-care.

Massage and Spa Treatments

For ultimate relaxation, treat yourself to a luxurious massage. Many high-end hotels offer spa services, but for a truly personalized experience, you can also find skilled practitioners offering therapeutic massages specifically for expats.

Yoga Studios

Shanghai is home to many yoga and wellness studios that offer classes in English. Whether you’re into traditional yoga, aerial yoga, or more intense workouts like Pilates, there’s a studio that fits your lifestyle.

How I Started My Career As Professional Mistress And Met My 1st Slave In China

As a Professional Dominatrix in Shanghai, I have encountered many interesting and unique individuals throughout my career. One of the most memorable experiences I had was meeting my first slave in 2009 who just relocated to Shanghai from Belgium. We got to know each other through a BDSM website called Collarme, which later changed its name to Collarspace. Unfortunately, the website is no longer active, but the memories of that fateful meeting still linger in my mind.

I remember vividly how we talked for a week before deciding to meet in real life in Shanghai. There was a sense of excitement and anticipation as I awaited his arrival. When he finally showed up, he immediately captured my attention by showing me his credit cards with his real name on it. It was a bold move on his part, but it was also a gesture of trust that I appreciated.

He invited me to Mr and Mrs Bund for dinner, a popular restaurant in the city known for its exquisite cuisine and elegant atmosphere. As we sat down at our table, I could sense the tension in the air, a mix of nerves and excitement as we began to delve into our respective roles – me as the Dominatrix, and him as my willing submissive.

He had been previously trained by a dominatrix in Amsterdam, came to me seeking a new level of submission and obedience. Throughout the course of the evening, we engaged in deep conversations about our desires, boundaries, and expectations. It was a great meeting of minds. By the end of the night, I had completed a nice vomiting session and a bond had been formed between us that transcended mere physical attraction. It was a connection built on trust, mutual respect, and a shared understanding of our roles in this unconventional D/s dynamic.

As I look back on that night, I can't help but feel grateful for the experience and the lessons it taught me about the complexities of power dynamics and human relationships. Meeting my first slave was not just a moment in time; it was the beginning of a journey that would shape my career and my understanding of myself as a Professional Dominatrix.

Shanghai BDSM Meetup | Suzhou Used Items Meetup | Weekly Lunch Meetup

Recently, an Australian male slave living in Shanghai subscribed to my weekly lunch meetup package. Each week, we meet at a different restaurant for lunch, where he awaits my arrival with a mix of anticipation and nervousness. During our meal, I discreetly remove my freshly worn panties under my dress, ensuring he catches a glimpse of my playful smirk. With a subtle, almost imperceptible movement, I pass the intimate underwear to him under the table, watching his face flush with a mixture of excitement and submission. The thrill of our secret exchange and the power dynamics at play add a tantalizing layer to our otherwise ordinary lunch meetings.