One of my biggest regrets during certain BDSM sessions is that I forgot to embrace a few of the submissives and slaves I found particularly attractive. In the heat of the moment, I was often so focused on maintaining control, asserting my dominance, and guiding the experience that I missed the chance to share a more intimate gesture—a simple hug.
Looking back, I realize that in those moments, an embrace could have added another layer of connection between us. While the primary focus of our interaction is on power dynamics and fulfilling their fantasies, there's also an undeniable human element that could have been acknowledged with a tender touch. A hug, given at the right time, wouldn't diminish my authority but could enhance the depth of our bond, creating a fleeting moment of warmth amid the intensity.
These moments slipped away because I was so engrossed in the role of dominatrix, where control is paramount. Yet, a part of me knows that offering a brief moment of closeness could have left an even more lasting impact, deepening both the emotional and physical connection we shared.