Thursday, September 26, 2024

Intriguing Meetup With an American Expat With Gerontophilia In Shanghai

 I'm Dominatrix Alessandra, based in Shanghai. Recently, I had an intriguing encounter with an American submissive who has a gerontophilia kink. At just 34 years old, I found it surprising that he was drawn to me for this particular fantasy instead of seeking out an older dominatrix. Yet, I was captivated by the challenge and the opportunity to explore something new. I used my words and actions to evoke the essence of an older woman, drawing on my experience and imagination to fully immerse myself in the role. I acted like Miss Daisy. I did everything slowly. I first soaked his gorgeous body in the shower room, then I started to grope him.

As a dominatrix, my job is to fulfill the fantasies of my submissives, no matter how unusual they may be. I have encountered many different fetishes and desires in my line of work, but gerontophilia was a new one for me. To my surprise, he found great pleasure in worshipping my hairy armpit, a unique twist that added to the dynamic of our encounter. It turned out to be an intriguing exploration of fantasies, blurring the lines between age and desire.

Tuesday, September 24, 2024

Innovative Impact Play Fetish Scenario For The Kiwi Expat In Shanghai

 The other day, my attention was drawn to a submissive kiwi man in Shanghai, a self-proclaimed Kiwi who has been living on this planet for more than 7 decades. Vengeful god had ruined his body but inside that aged exterior, he remained youthful—his spirit forever locked at 25 years old.  He had reached out to request a special impact play session—one designed to stretch the boundaries of pleasure and pain, emphasizing control and obedience.

Arriving at his apartment in shanghai, I was enveloped by an eclectic decor that whispered stories of adventure, each artifact a testament to his globe-trotting journeys. The warm, ambient light cast playful shadows on the walls, enhancing the thick atmosphere of anticipation. He awaited me, nerves fluttering beneath his skin, a mix of excitement and uncertainty dancing in his eyes.

“Are you ready?” I inquired, my tone seductive yet commanding. He nodded, eyes wide with trepidation. As he disrobed, revealing his vulnerable form, I reveled in the power dynamic—a thrilling rush coursing through me like electricity.

Once he stood before me in all his nakedness, I could almost hear his heartbeat, a steady drum echoing my own excitement. My high heels glimmered in the soft light—sharp, commanding, filled with promise. “Tonight is about trust,” I assured him with a confident smile. “You will learn the true meaning of surrender.”

I directed him to stand tall, legs slightly apart. In this moment, I transformed from dominatrix into an artist, poised to sculpt a masterpiece of sensation. I put my heel on his most sensitive and erected flesh—deliberately slow, filled with gravity—and relished the sharp breath he took in response.

“Remember,” I said softly, yet with an undercurrent of authority, “the heel remains there at all times.” He nodded. It was intoxicating.

Gradually increasing the strength of cane spanking on his ass, I watched him intently. He fought to maintain composure, muscles tightening as he navigated the exquisite blend of pain and ecstasy. 

Then, with a swift motion, I kicked lightly at his balls, a playful yet punishing act. The high heel on his flesh started to swing but luckily it stayed on finally. He felt relieved.

“Hold steady,” I instructed with a mischievous look. He gritted his teeth, reminding himself of his role in this fantasy. Each kick was calculated, each thrust an intrusion into his comfort zone.

“Good boy,” I murmured after each resonating kick, my voice soothing yet laced with superiority—a reward and a reminder that submission bore its own strength. The evening unfolded like a meticulously choreographed performance, my methods refined by years of practice and intuition.

Yet, beneath this dynamic dance of power lay a deeper bond—a trust forged through each sensation, every cry echoing off the walls another testament to our shared journey. My impact play wasn’t merely about inflicting pain; it was a means to liberate him from societal constraints, exposing layers of vulnerability that craved release. In those intimate moments, I could see the vivacious young boy shines through his aged shell. By the end, he radiated a renewed energy, a reminder that no matter how many years one has lived, the spirit can always be rejuvenated and set free.


Sunday, September 15, 2024

Femdom BDSM Stories: Special Semi-public Pegging Scenario For A Czech In Shanghai

A tall man from the Czech Republic reached out to me, seeking a special pegging session. As he confided that he was an exhibitionist, I carefully crafted a semi-public scenario tailored to his desires. I instructed him to book a hotel room with a balcony, where the setting would provide just the right amount of thrill. He did exactly that, and we met in the evening.

Once inside, I commanded him to strip completely and stand on the balcony, exposed to the night air after he had finished the enema. After applying a generous amount of lubricant to my strap-on, I positioned myself just inside the room, out of sight from the outside world, and began thrusting into him from behind. The intensity of the moment grew as the reality of the situation set in.

Mid-session, we both heard movement from the neighboring balcony. A Chinese man suddenly appeared on the neighboring balcony and caught sight of him standing there completely naked. The chinese guy startled. My submissive was very calm to give an apology to the neighbor. The Chinese man glanced around, confused, but couldn't see me because I remained just inside the room, continuing to peg him from behind, enjoying the control and the heightened sense of risk. 

Every moment was carefully orchestrated, blending pleasure and fear, pushing boundaries just enough to fulfill his craving for exhibitionism without crossing the line into full exposure.

Friday, September 13, 2024

Professor Student Roleplay | UK Professor's Lesson In Submission In Shanghai

A few weeks ago, a young university professor from the UK contacted me for a 6-hour role-play session. I suggested that I play the role of a rebellious and dominant student, while he could be my professor for the session. As we began the role-play at his hotel in Shanghai, I dressed provocatively and acted flirtatiously towards the professor. We engaged in heated arguments about grades and academic misconduct, with me continuously pushing the boundaries of the role-play scenario.

During the session, I took out an elastic band and used it to tighten the professor’s balls, causing him to gasp in a mixture of pain and pleasure. I then proceeded to squeeze his balls with my bare hands, further intensifying his sensations. Feeling adventurous, I decided to strap on a realistic-looking dildo and took the professor from behind, gently thrusting into his virgin ass and groping his nice hair. I then pegged him when he lay on his back. I looked him in the eyes when he reached the sensational prostate orgasm.

After the session, the professor and I engaged in a discussion about our experience. I explained to him that I enjoy pushing boundaries and exploring new sexual experiences. The professor seemed open-minded and willing to engage in further exploration in the future.

Over the past 16 years, I’ve encountered many professors, but this one truly stands out. He not only booked an unusually long session with me, but he’s also strikingly handsome, making our time together particularly memorable.

Wednesday, September 11, 2024

Shanghai BDSM Dating: Why I chose to Date a Swiss Slave Over a Canadian

 I only found 2 out of 592 submissive men I met in shanghai sexually attractive. Apparently very few man turn me on sexually.

Recently a slave asked me why I chose not to date the canadian slave since only 2 men can turn me on!

I met these 2 submissive men for BDSM sessions, each at different stages of my life in Shanghai. They are the only 2 sub men I found undeniably sexually attractive out of 592 slaves, but I ended up developing a deeper connection with only one of them — the German-speaking Swiss. The other, a Canadian, was eventually removed from my WeChat contacts, and here’s why.

The Swiss man stood out as more than just a casual submissive. He embodied the qualities I seek in a potential submissive husband. He’s single, a few years older than me, and possesses an extraordinary pain threshold, which naturally appeals to my dominant side. Beyond the physical connection, he’s considerate, generous, and, importantly, emotionally available. The chemistry between us is undeniable, and the feelings are mutual. His life circumstances and temperament make him an ideal candidate for a long-term dynamic, possibly evolving into a D/s relationship with deep emotional and practical ties.

On the other hand, the Canadian, while also single, is about 20 years older than me. His life is consumed by an extremely demanding job, leaving little time or energy for personal relationships. He also carries the weight of many responsibilities, constantly tending to people in his life who require his care. As much as he may enjoy the occasional session, it’s clear that his circumstances leave little room for the type of intimate, dedicated D/s relationship I’m seeking. His divided attention and lack of availability made it obvious to me that he could never evolve into the submissive husband I desire. Hence, keeping him in my life became unnecessary.

In the end, it wasn’t just about attraction but about recognizing who could truly complement my life and my needs. The Swiss man shows real potential, while the Canadian simply doesn’t fit into the vision I have for a lasting, meaningful dynamic.

The Welsh Began His Unorthodox Journey In Shanghai With My Help

It was on this particular sunny spring day, with the scent of blooming flora delighting my senses, that I received an email from a wistful Welsh man in shanghai. Curious and eager, he inquired about a session, unsure yet excited about what lay ahead.

I guided him to a serene park near the glitzy 1000 Trees Shopping Mall in Jing'an district of shanghai, where nature's tranquility stood in stark contrast to the surrounding urban chaos. The air was filled with laughter and distant chatter, the sounds of families enjoying their outings, but for us, nestled in our own world, this ambiance would soon evolve into an exquisite symphony of power dynamics.

I asked,“Ready for our adventure?” He nodded slightly, his voice barely above a whisper as he admitted, “I’ve never done anything like this before.” I smiled knowingly. “That’s what makes it all the more thrilling. Trust is essential; let it guide you.” We settled onto a public bench that beckoned with an inviting charm. The day felt charged with promise. I took a moment to assure him—this was our sanctuary for the next hour, where boundaries would be respected, and desires unveiled. I pulled out my accessories from the elegant black bag beside me—the tools of my craft that shimmered in the sunlight. With deliberate grace, I unwrapped the sturdy rope, the fibers glistening while the fabric contained memories of past sessions. “Are you ready?” I asked softly yet firmly.


Yes,” he breathed, a hint of apprehension lacing his words.

I expertly bound his wrists together with satin-smooth precision, ensuring each knot was both secure and comfortable. As I tied him to the bench, I couldn’t help but admire his trust as he surrendered to my guidance. The boundaries of our surroundings blurred; we were cocooned in our little world infused with an intoxicating thrill.

I took out the chastity cage. Its metallic glint caught the sun's rays as I raised it before him. His eyes widened in both wonder and a hint of fear—a captivating blend that made my heart race with exhilaration.

"This," I purred, "is a symbol of your surrender." He nodded eagerly; his anticipation hung heavy in the air as I slipped the device over him. The finality of the lock clicking into place brought him peace. I took out the keys and let them dangle from my necklace—a beautiful charm representing control and desire intertwined.

“This is your moment,” I whispered seductively. “Feel everything around you—the warmth of the sun, the whispers of the wind. Each sensation is magnified.” He surrendered completely to my words; his breathing changed as I watched him embrace the enchanting chaos around us. The world melted away; our connection became an intimate dance set against the glorious backdrop of Shanghai.

As I toyed with his senses—running my fingers along his skin, teasing him with a gentle brush of my hand—every glimpse of his vulnerability painted a masterpiece within me. Time melted into an exquisite ether where nothing existed outside our sacred play.

He invited me to shanghai dinner cruise to celebrate this unconventional journey together!


Sunday, September 8, 2024

Fetish Clip Store: Female Anal Prolapse Video Service For Prolapse Fetish Male Submissives

 During one of my BDSM sessions in Shanghai, an American slave opened up to me about all his fetishes. He revealed a staggering list of over ten unique desires, ranging from the common to the truly niche. Among them was his fascination with prolapse — a fetish centered on arousal from witnessing and worshipping a woman's prolapse.

As it happens, I have a prolapse myself, a condition I've come to understand is not uncommon among women, particularly those who struggle with chronic constipation. It's a reality many women face but rarely discuss, given the stigma surrounding such intimate topics.

While I'm always open to exploring and accommodating my submissives' fantasies to the extent that they align with my boundaries and safety considerations, I decided I could not engage in a prolapse fetish session with him directly. BDSM is as much about creating safe spaces for exploration as it is about maintaining mutual respect for boundaries. However, I understood his longing and was willing to meet him halfway by offering a custom prolapse video service. This way, he could indulge in his fantasy safely and ethically, without compromising my personal limits or well-being.

This experience reminded me of the incredible diversity of human desire and the trust that submissives place in me as their dominatrix. It's a reminder of how BDSM can serve as a platform for open dialogue about topics that might otherwise remain taboo. In my role, I strive to find creative, respectful ways to bridge the gap between fantasy and reality, ensuring that every interaction upholds the principles of consent, trust, and personal boundaries.


Monday, September 2, 2024

The Punishment I Get For Being A Pro Dominatrix In Shanghai

The irony of being a dominatrix is that I ended up falling for a toilet slave. 

Out of the 570 or so men I've encountered in my line of work, he was only the second one to truly captivate me. His submissive, shy demeanor had an unexpected allure, and his athletic physique only heightened the attraction during our sessions. Despite the power dynamics between us, I found myself developing a soft spot for him—dare I say, even a crush during our communication.

There were moments when I thought about asking him out, of breaking the boundaries of our roles. But deep down, I knew it was impossible. We were fundamentally incompatible, with our personalities clashing starkly outside the confines of the dungeon although he was single. It became painfully clear that whatever connection we shared was confined to the fantasy world we had created together. 

Accepting this reality, I made the difficult decision to delete his wechat contact information, hoping to sever any emotional ties and maintain the clear boundary between my professional and personal life.