Games & Ways to Play Chastity

As a dominant, I reap the rewards of focused attention, the ability to assign all types of tasks, controlling the pleasure of a submissive/slave and denying one of their pleasure while demanding their own pleasure. 

I use below games to decide the lockup duration.

1 Use dice to determine, could be the number of hours, days, weeks even months.

2 Use water container to determine. Put chastity keys in a water container and place the container in the freezer. The larger the container, the longer it takes to escape!

I also use below games to reward my subs/slaves in chastity

1 set fitness goals for my sub to reach. At each mile stone, my sub can be rewarded with some form of pleasure or freedom. This not only helps my sub improve his health, but also gives me a sexier sub to play around with.

2 dress my sub up as a maid and make him serve 

3 melt key pee ice cube with sub's tongue

4 order sub to cook super spicy noodles and make him eat it!

Key Holding Related Items by Chinese Chastity Goddess

 Here is a list of additional item packages you can expect to add to go along with keyholding.

• Keyholder supervised lock up via an audio-video platform like Skype.
• Teasing via an audio-video platform.
• Teasing by email or text.
• Teasing by phone/skype
• Teasing erotic photos taken and sent by the keyholder.
• Small penis humiliation (SPH) via an audio-video platform, webcam, or submitted images.
• Periodic surprise lock up verification checks where you must submit a proof photo with a specified time.
• Weekly lock up verification checks by photo submission.
• email me at mistress@doctor.com to consult my chastity key holding package

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我在过去的12年里管控了超210个贞操锁。

无论你在哪，我都能锁住你的鸟。我采用的是最安全有效便捷的贞操锁管理方案。

目前管控的几个奴在中国，欧洲，美国和澳大利亚，老外贞操奴居多。

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What are the Benefits of Male Chastity Training ?

There are countless benefits of male chastity to delve into! Some of the most predominant and noticeable benefits include greater intimacy between couples, higher sex drive and libido, an overall happier life, and for dominant/submissive couples – the perfect tool to surrender/take control. Let’s break down these major benefits and highlight a few other outlying benefits of male chastity as well.

Strengthen Relationships & Increase Intimacy :

Steel chastity cages direct toward honest and open relationships with each other’s sexual needs, thereby strengthening your love life and your relationships. Moreover, it will improve the natural bonding among couples.

It Prevents Men from Masturbating:

Your man’s sexual energy should only be directed toward you; it should not get wasted in masturbating. Your man should not use that energy in touching his private parts with the thoughts of another woman in mind.

Happy Sex Life:

With chastity cages, you will have a better and improved sex life because your man will love you until his release. You will feel more erotic and will have more orgasm with growing sex.

No More Worry On Your partner/Spouse Cheating You:

Men, irrespective of how much they love their girls, get directed toward other sexy, appealing, and attractive women. But, these devices hinder their urges and will make them faithful toward you.

There will Always Be Romance:

As long as men have opportunities to have sex with you anytime, there’s no reason left for him to please you. However, by limiting the urges to have sex, they will remain a romantic person always. And, your love will remain fresh like your dating days.

No Need For Oral Sex:

Of course, it’s personal preferences to have oral sex, but your man will be happy with the sort of release after the chastity device sex.

Your Partner Will Feel Better About Themselves:

Men often become a slave of their libido and masturbate quite often. However, if they don’t get into the temptation of pleasing themselves, they will become happy with their self-control.

The Orgasm Will Become Better:

As long as your men can masturbate, he is doing things to desensitize its penis. But, once his ejaculations become normal, his penis will become sensitive, and the orgasm will improve.

Daily Task for My Sissy Slaves by Chinese Dominatrix

 Gave my European sissy a task. I ordered him to wear red pantyhose beneath his pants without wearing boxers. He told me wearing that made him so sensual while he was giving a speech as a keynote speaker in front of 100 people in the hall. Are you up for such challenge?

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Herrin Alessandra ist eine Chinesische Herrin/Sadistin aus Leidenschaft, sie erfreut sich daran ihren Spielgefährten Erniedrigungen und Schmerzen auszusetzen. Deiner Sinne entzogen und völlig bewegungsunfähig bist du mir ausgeliefert. Nun entscheide ich, was als Nächstes mit dir geschehen wird. Einfühlsam begegne ich dem Anfänger, hart und konsequent dem Erfahrenen. Fühle den Schmerz, die Erniedrigung und ergib dich meiner Dominanz.

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Chastity Tease and Denial for Cuck Sissy Submissives

The tease and denial play brings me so much amusement.

I set a timer for 30 minutes and then tie my sissy slave down to secure he can not escape.

I begin to tease him in whatever way I see fit. For example, make him watch some steamy gifs. When he gets close to orgasm he must beg me to stop.

Make him say something like “Please stop Goddess! I’m about to cum!” (it’s REALLY funny!)

Count the times of him begging me to stop. Keep repeating this over and over again until the timer runs out.

No cumming for him at all. When the timer sounds, count up the number of times he begged you to stop! That is the amount of days he must spend in chastity!

My German sissy slave begged me for 12 times during 30 minutes. The look on his face was so funny.

What are the advantages of my remote chastity lock?

Below is a list of advantages of using the remote accessible lock to control the chastity

1 You do not need to mail out me mechanical chastity keys any more so it saves your energy, time and money. You put mechanical keys in a box. Use the remote accessible lock to lock the box. I can authorize you access to the box so that you can get your key at any time I approve. 

2 You do not need to worry about keys missing because you do not send out your keys!

3 The lock battery usually can last up to 5~6 months on a single charge.

4 Time has proven it is super safe as I have been key holding for some of my slaves in chastity for years!

5 In case of emergency, you can break the box to get keys.

6 You can keep using the old metal cage no matter how many emergencies happen.

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Chastity Guide: How do you clean the chastity cage?

 It is very important for you to keep the chastity cage clean so that you can continue to keep healthy in the chastity training, especially the long term one.

Before you are locked up, it is vital to discuss with your key holding mistress if you are allowed to take off the cage during cleaning.

The easiest way to clean your cage (if you are not allowed to take off the cage) :

Step 1 pour mixture of skin gel & water into the cage several times during the shower. 
Step 2 run the shower head with big & powerful water flow over it. This will get the easy dirt/grime out from the cage.   
Step 3 I highly recommend you use cotton swabs/buds to increase the cleanliness. Use cotton swab to dig dirt out of your cage. Swirl swab around the pee hole to make it clean.

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How long can my slaves stay in chastity?

Currently my beginner chastity slaves can stay in cage for a few hours to a few days. Mid levels can handle 1-9 weeks. Senior levels can endure themselves in the device for 3 months to 1 year. 75% of my slaves can double their previous record in chastity at/before the 3rd time. They begged me so hard a lot of times during the whole locking process but when I am so determined to activate their great potential, I will definitely push them further with strict control. My slaves are amazed at the outcome under my supervision and some of them tripled their duration at/before the 5th time!

In general there is no upper limit of how long you can wear chastity cage but it is a gradual process that you have to adapt yourself and slowly build it into long term.

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Why do I Enjoy Key holding as Chastity Goddess?

Key holding gives me complete power over my chastity slaves. I control the duration of their stay in chastity. I control their orgasms. I get a great kick out of doing that!

But it’s more than that. Being a key holder means I take great responsibility for the well-being of my slaves. The caged slaves are literally putting their pleasure and safety into my hands.

Slaves staying chastity shows your devotion to me. I derive great pleasure from your suffering in chastity for me.

There are so many men out there literally aching to be in chastity – and to be in chastity for a Domme or Mistress. I’ve thoroughly enjoyed holding the chastity device keys of many such men, and teasing them through the experience. Their vocal and physical reactions as well as consensual pain are the reasons I adore male chastity. All I ask is the complete honesty and respect that I offer out.

When I’m holding chastity keys for a locked up submissive/slave, the tangible & intangible control over them is sensational. The chastity keys worn either on a chain round my neck or on an anklet are physical proof of that sacrificed control, and as such are sacred.

Time flies and the locked up chastity slave gets more and more desperate for release, my permission to release you from chastity makes the slave feel even more valuable than at the start. I would say it means the entire world to him!

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Why do You Surrender to Me as My Chastity Slave?

1 My 12 years' experience of online & offline chastity key holding help me conclude the best & safest key holding solution.

2 I am able to extend the gift of my dominance via your chastity training all over the world.

3 Once I set up the locking online/offline, I will be the only one that owns you.

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How do I Realize Online Key Holding for My Chastity Slaves?

 I use two ways to realize remote key holding chastity training for my slaves.

1 Use Cellmate- an app controlled chastity device

Only very few slaves choose this option as this chastity device looks quite bulky. It sells for about $189, which is not cheap.

2 Use a remote accessible lock (I and most of my slaves prefer this way)

I will instruct you on how to pick the right accessible lock from Amazon/Ebay. The price for the lock plus the cage is about $70~$80, which is very cost-effective, much cheaper than Cellmate. The lock is usually very big so it’s not feasible to lock your chastity with it. You need to put chastity keys in a box and lock the box with this big lock! 

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What Punishments do You Get as My Chastity Slave?

There are many things that can excite you during your time in chastity. It could happen during cleaning or when you go to bed – at any time. You might feel very tempted to rub yourself in a certain way to get some form of stimulation, maybe a cotton swab seemed a little too tempting during cleaning. All attempts to touch or get some sort of relief will result in punishment.

Being dishonest also results in punishment. When I ask you if you’ve been a good boy, you should always tell me the truth.

The punishment will be either corporal or financial depending on what type of sub you are.

Below are several examples of punishment I gave to my chastity slave:

1 Extend your stay in chastity (could extend 1~10days)

2 You face a fine of a certain amount of money ( could be $1~$50)

3 Spank yourself hard( could be 20~30times)

4 Melt pee ice cubes with your tongue outdoors in winter

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What Chastity Device/cage should I select?

1 Select a cage made of the material to which you are not allergic

I have had slaves who got severe allergies to the cage material because they chose the wrong one. They had to cease the training because of the allergy.

2 Select a cage with good ventilation which is easy for you to clean

Maintaining proper hygiene in the cage is vital so your pathetic dick can breathe. A ventilated cage makes cleaning easier and enhances your endurance in the long term.

3 Select a cage of good quality

It is extremely important to get a good-quality cage. I can not emphasize this enough! If your cage pinches your skin every second step you make, it won’t take long before that little sore spot turns into broken skin – if it doesn’t happen after a few pinches already.

I have had chastity slaves that ordered a cheap cage on eBay and all I could do was advise them not to and then watch them fail at their chaste experience because of pain.

4 Do not select a cage with a tiny built-in lock

Keys tend to break off inside those tiny built-in locks when you pull out the key to lock yourself up. Try to select a cage with an external lock.

I believe you will find that the chance of having someone holding the keys for you while you’re securely locked in your cage is an experience you can’t really put a price tag on.

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 I locked my 1st chastity slave in 2008. 

So far I have locked over 230 chastity slaves over the past 12 years.

I do offline chastity locking in Shanghai and neighborhood cities.

I also provide remote keyholding via cellmate or remote accessible lock for slaves in USA, UK, Germany, Norway, Sweden, Spain, Switzerland, Italy, Australia, Dubai, etc.

Remote chastity control on skype is also available

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SM Adventure in Shanghai Railway station by Nanjing Dominatrix

After we passed the security check at the entrance of shanghai railway station, I ordered him to put on chastity in the men's room and give me the key. I made him wear the e-shock collar at his crotch area. I e-shocked him so he realized he doesn't have a choice but obey me. I slapped him hard continuously when he begged me for a chastity release.

A Canadian Sub in Shanghai subscribed to My Feet Washing Package

Living in a hectic city like Shanghai is not easy. Being my foot servant makes him free of work pressure and be able to enjoy tranquility at heart. He washes my delicate feet four times per month. 

What is life in Shanghai Like for an Expat?

I am not originally from Shanghai but as a Chinese domme, Shanghai is my favorite city. A bunch of my subs/slaves like Shanghai the most among all the Chinese cities.

Shanghai has very low crime rate. The risk of being mugged or kidnapped is very rare. I walked many times alone in small street in late night and nothing bad happened.

You can use super developed public transportation systems to get around in Shanghai. Metros, buses, shared bikes are everywhere.

You can enjoy food diversity here as there is a wide range of good international restaurants & bars in Shanghai. It can take you a decade to finish trying out all the food options here.

Cost of living is high here as it is the top expensive city in China. If you wanna reach a pretty comfortable level of life here, you’d better earn 40K~ 50K RMB monthly if housing is not provided by company.

Shanghai has a population of 24~25 Million people so you can encounter tons of crowded corners in Shanghai. Occasional excursion to suburb is good to obtain peace and quiet.

Got a housechore sub in Shanghai

I order him to wash and massage my feet, clean my shoes and carry my things as a butler outside.

At the beginning, he is very nervous but then serving me give him quiet and peace.

We meet 4 times per month.

If you enjoy being bossed around, email me

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I have 1 Canadian pain slut slave. He is healed by my BDSM pain sessions. He is traumatized by his parents' physical punishments since childhood. His parents beat him from time to time for his naughty behavior. After that, he feels that parents are like a bomb that can explode at any time. Holding such fear makes him anxious. SM beatings relieve him from anxiety. He sheds happy tears after I whip him hard each time.

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 I met a few submissive adult babies in Shanghai, Suzhou & Wuxi. I love to change their diapers, taking them back to a carefree world. 

My mother is a tailor so I also supply my adult babies a lot of ABDL stuff such as adult diapers, adult pacifiers and crossdressing clothing.

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 You’re exploring the world with your big beautiful eyes! Crawling; taking first steps, playing, seeing and touching. So many new experiences and sensations! Mommy is so proud of you for being such a little adventurer. Now, it’s time for you to come home to your loving Mommy Alessandra! It’s feeding time and I’m sure your little tummy is making all of those funny grumbly noises! I set you up safely and securely in your high chair. You’re such a wiggly baby and Mommy would never ever let you fall. I’ve made all of your favorites; sweet potato’s, oats, apple sauce and of course fresh milk and freshly baked cookies that you can have, but only if you’re a good baby and eat all of your food! All the baby food is perfectly cut for your perfect little fingers. I know how you like to be a naughty baby and throw your food! Don’t make Mommy spank your cute little diaper butt with a spoon! Mommy wants to make sure you get all of your nutrients to be the happiest/healthiest babyyou can possibly be! Once you’re all done eating, I carry you out of your high chair, keeping you so close in my loving arms as I gently burp you. Bouncing you ever so softly until you have those sweet little burps! After you’ve been properly burped, I look at your chubby baby cheeks and you’ve got food smeared all over your face! Your eyes glisten with excitement because you know exactly what that means… it’s… BATH TIME!! I carry you to the bath tub as I fill the tub with warm water and the fluffiest, bubbliest, bubble bath. There’s a whole castle of bubbles for you to splash around in! Your little smiles grows bigger and bigger as I put you in the tubby tub. All the bubbles surround you in a fluffy paradise. I even surprise you by putting a big handful on your face so that you look like a little Santa Claus, you giggle and giggle so much! Mommy blows so many bubbles at you, it’s our absolute favorite playtime together! It just warms my heart to see you so happy! Now all the rubber duckies and bath toys come out. They all go splishy splash, up and down and through the bubbles. Some even squeak or swim on their own! All the bath time adventures you can possibly imagine! Your eyes are wide with amazement and joy that you can hardly contain yourself. Mommy starts to clean you with the help of Mr. Duck; your softest bath time ducky friend that gets you squeaky clean all over! Mommy loves when you smell so fresh and have that clean baby smell! When bath time is over, I wrap you up in the froggy towel to get you all dried off. Now that you’re all clean, it’s time for baby lotion and a fresh diaper! I lay you down on a fluffed up diaper with the cutest little baby animals on it! They’re so cute and little, just like you! What animals do you see? “Sheeeep” yes baby! What do sheep say? “Baaaahhhh bahhhh” yes baby, you’re so smart! Now let’s count how many there are; 1…2…3…4…5…. So many little sheep on your fluffy fresh diaper. Mommy rubs the softest, creamiest baby lotion all over you to make your skin so silky and smooth. I just adore your soft baby skin! Now for the baby powder, it just smells so good even though it sometimes makes you get the sneezies! I finish securing your diaper nice and tight, it just makes you feel so safe and secure. It’s time for beddy-by! Mommy cradles you nice and snug against my chest as I feed you a bottle of warm milk. You’re such a good baby drinking it all up for Mommy. You fit so well in this baby crib with me, all snuggled up in my arms. I never ever want you to grow up. Always stay little enough to be held in Mommy’s arms, my loving baby forever! I read you all of your favorite bed time stories and sing your favorite lullaby’s. You fall sound asleep in your crib, but don’t you worry. Mommy will be here all night to change your diaper, feed you and rock you back to sleep. I will attend to all your baby needs! You never have to worry or think about a thing because Mommy will always take care of you! Mommy always knows best! Your mommy loves you so very much! Home is where you belong, safe and sound!

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