Essential APPs For Foreigners To Live In China

 1. 微信 WeChat (iOS/Android) It's a must-have App for living in China.It is mainly for instant messaging and e-payments. Equivalent to WhatsApp + PayPal/Venmo + Facebook + Instagram. You can get health code in wechat in the time of covid-19. Wechat has become a major means for people or businesses to communicate in China It has a lot of other functions such as phone credit top-up, transferring money to friends, hotel booking, train booking etc. A lot of enterprises in China uses wechat to 

2. 支付宝 Alipay (iOS/Android) It is a must-have APP for living in China e-payment and the only e-wallet for shopping on taobao, Tmall and xianyu. You can get health code in wechat in the time of covid-19. It has a lot of other functions such as phone credit top-up, transferring money to friends, hotel booking, train booking etc.

3. 淘宝 TaoBao(iOS/Android) Chinese version of Amazon. It is the biggest online shopping platform in China.

4. 天猫 TMall (iOS/Android) Chinese version of premium Amazon. It is the gathering of official brand shop and premium sellers. 

5. 京东 JD.com (iOS/Android) Alternative of Taobao & Tmall. More expensive than Taobao & Tmall in general but usually with faster delivery service.

6. 美团 MeiTuan (iOS/Android) Major food delivery platform but it also provides several other services: cinema tickets, hotel booking, train tickets, taxi etc, 

7. 饿了么 Ele.me (iOS/Android) Similar to Meituan, you can order food from a vast selection of restaurants and have them delivered to your place. 

8. 大众点评 Dàzhòng diǎnpíng (iOS/Android) Chinese version of Yelp/Tripadvisor. You can give reviews for almost everything. Particularly useful for finding places to eat, from the high end to the hyper local. If you’re anywhere in China and looking for a place to eat, this app will help you find something amazing. Can also book movie tickets, and order food to your doorstep, and loads more. 

9. 滴滴出行 DiDi Taxi (iOS/Android) Chinese versiob of Uber. There are a variety of vehicles for you to select for your trip. If you have a low budget, you can choose the carpool option in the APP. Stand in very clear places and make sure your location pin matches where you are. You can also schedule taxi’s in advance.

10. 百度翻译 Baidu Translate (iOS/Android) Google translate isn’t blocked in China but Baidu translate might be better. Not for translation quality but rather for ease of use. Especially on iPhone, you can share highlighted text directly to the translation app.

11. 高德地图 AMaps (iOS/Android) One of the best maps apps in China

12. Trip.com, formerly Ctrip (iOS/Android) Great app for booking flights and train tickets in China. Has a higher booking fee than other apps but is super easy to use. Until you’re confident with your chinese skills we recommend it.

13. Expressvpn, important APP to unblock youtube, Instagram, facebook, google and so on. However slightly more expensive. It charges for 60USD for 6 months. I have configured a vpn by myself which charges only 40USD for 6 months.

Fun Chastity Game to Earn A short Release

This Game is designed by Asian Mistress Alessandra. 

Slaves who are locked in keyholding by me can pay 30 USD to play this game. I will show you another 4-digit clues. You need to crack the code within 2minutes. Time spent on reading the clues is included in the  2minutes. Correct code gets you a short release of 24hours.

Chastity Keyholding Canberra/Gold Coast/Darwin/Sydney/Melbourne/Perth/Brisbane

I did not know there is a city called the fantastic name "Gold Coast" until I keyholded an Aussie slave's chastity.

If you are tired of self-locking, If you lack willpower, if you seek enforced chastity training, this is the right place.

I am Asian Dominatrix Alessandra who uses the best keyholding method to control slaves' chastity cage globally.

I have been a Dominatrix for over a decade. Here is a danger I faced.

I remember that was my 3rd outcall session that day. I quickly got to the hotel in China to meet the American for a pegging and bondage session. 

The 6-feet tall medium built American picked me up at the lobby around 22:30. I first ordered him to assemble my biggest dildo which is 30cm long, 6cm diameter to my strap pad. He did a good and quick job so I pegged him immediately for several rounds after he did the enema. I decided to give him a short rest since he had been bending over for about half an hour. I was trying to book a hotel nearby online during chitchatting with him because it was quite late and my home was far away. I did not expect many hotels were booked up so fast. He learnt that I was looking for a hotel room during our chitchat and he then insisted that I can stay in his room for the night. I said, "thanks but I couldn't sleep when someone else is in same room so I will book a room nearby for myself anyways." He then stared at me saying, "Actually I am not a slave. I am a switch." I was thinking "this can not possibly go wrong because I made sure he is not a serial killer!" in my head. He grabbed the rope I brought and approached me slowly, kept asking me, "I know you like to be tied up, don't you? I clearly said " No." He did not stop walking up to me. I stood close to the door but I did not open the door. I thought I do not need to use the stuff but he left me no choice. I gave him a strong e-shock and then tied him up quickly. He appeared to be very tamed in ropes. 

Doing Exercise Tasks to Earn A Release From Chastity Cage

Tasks you can do to earn points: 

Dumbbell Liftings, each dumbbell weighs at least 3KG, 2 hands lift up dumbbells count as 1, 25 per set, 5sets =0.5point

Jogging 6KM finished within 50 minutes =0.5point 

Pushups, 50 per set, 2 sets =0.5point

Ab Trainer, 15 per set, 4sets =0.5point

Tasks are not limited to above mentioned. Other exercise tasks are acceptable depending on slaves' situation. 

Each exercise task requires valid video or APP screenshot proof to offer you 0.5 point. No repetition of same task on same day.

Point validity: starts from the day you earn and lasts 30days. 

 24hour Release costs 10 valid points 

Routine cleaning costs 0.5 point

Immediate cleaning costs 2 points

Shortage/Mistake found in submitted proof will lead to punishment such as face slapping, spanking......

I am sure 24hour release from chastity cage will motivate you to exercise hard to earn points.

Chastity Keyholder Aukland/Wellington, New Zealand

I am superior Keyholder Mistress Alessandra.

Once I take ownership of your genitals in the form of chastity key holding, breaking your spirit will be easy.

No matter where you are in New Zealand, I can control your chastity through remote lock & APP.

Email Mistress@doctor.com to order chastity keyholding & orgasm control.

BDSM Aftercare Guide

 BDSM aftercare is a crucial aspect of responsible and healthy BDSM practice. Aftercare refers to the care and attention given to participants after a BDSM scene or session, designed to help them transition back to a state of emotional, psychological, and physical equilibrium. Here's a guide to BDSM aftercare:

Communication and Negotiation:

Discuss aftercare preferences and needs before engaging in any BDSM activities. Each participant may have different requirements.

Communicate boundaries, triggers, and any potential emotional or physical concerns.

Understanding Aftercare Needs:

Recognize that aftercare needs vary from person to person and can depend on the intensity of the scene.

Some people may need physical affection, verbal reassurance, or simply quiet time to decompress.

Understand that aftercare isn't just for submissives; dominants may also require reassurance and emotional support after a scene.

Physical Aftercare:

Attend to any physical needs such as cleaning wounds, applying ointment, or providing water and snacks.

Embrace physical touch if it's desired, such as cuddling, holding, or gentle massage.

Ensure participants are warm and comfortable.

Emotional Aftercare:

Provide emotional support and reassurance. Validate feelings and experiences.

Encourage open communication about the scene, including what went well and what could be improved.

Address any emotional triggers or potential trauma that may have arisen during the scene.

Verbal Reassurance:

Offer words of affirmation and praise to reinforce trust and connection.

Express gratitude for the experience and for the trust shared during the scene.

Reaffirm boundaries and consent.

Time and Space:

Allow time for participants to process their experiences and emotions.

Respect the need for privacy and personal space if desired.

Avoid rushing the aftercare process; allow it to unfold naturally.

Debriefing:

Schedule a debriefing session if necessary to discuss the scene in more detail.

Reflect on what worked well and what could be improved for future scenes.

Address any concerns or issues that arose during the scene.

Self-Care:

Encourage participants to engage in self-care activities following the scene, such as taking a warm bath, journaling, or engaging in relaxing hobbies.

Practice mindfulness and grounding techniques to help participants reconnect with the present moment.

Follow-Up:

Check in with participants in the days following the scene to ensure they are coping well emotionally and physically.

Be open to ongoing communication and adjustments to aftercare routines based on individual needs and experiences.

Remember, BDSM aftercare is about fostering trust, communication, and emotional well-being. By prioritizing aftercare, participants can deepen their connection, promote mutual respect, and ensure a safe and fulfilling BDSM experience for all involved.

Locked Slaves From Different States in the US in Keyholding

2 from California, 1 from New York, 1 from Mississippi, 1 from Arkansas, 1 from Louisiana joined for short term chastity.

1 from California, 1 from Texas joined for long term chastity.

Let's wait and see slave from which state wins!

Gamble To Win Your Chastity Release Date

I designed this game for my chastity slaves & lockees.

I play the border inspector and you play the smuggler. You can put money in the box or leave the box empty. If I say there's money in box but in fact the box is empty. You win! If I say the box is empty, but in fact there's money. You win!

We play the game 3 rounds in total. If you win all 3 rounds, you earn a immediate release. If you win 2 rounds, you earn a release in 5days.

 

Pay 30usd to play the game!

Gamble to Win Free Chastity Keyholding

The game will be conducted via skype video conference. I write down the name of a constellation on a paper slip and fold it. The folded slip will be under your surveillance all the time so I will not be able to change the answer. Then you can answer the question "What constellation have I written?" You can only make 1 guess. If you have the correct answer, you win my free 2-week chastity keyholding training.

The game fee is $30

Email me to schedule time to play the game

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Keyholding Beta Losers in Beijing/Los Angeles/Sydney

Locked a bunch of sissies and beta losers in Chastity in Beijing/Guangzhou/Sydney/Los Angeles with my remote keyholding.

Most of them are beginners but I will push their limits further.

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Chastity Forum: Should I Buy QIUI Cellmate?

Pros

1 When you first see QIUI Cellmate, I am sure you find the design kinda amazing and cheek.

2 It is made of high strength poly carbonate and provides a good handfeel. 

3 It is very easy to pair the device to realize remote control & keyholding.

4 It's IPX7 waterproof so you can wear it taking a quick shower

Cons

1 Besides looking bulky, cellmate provides very limited size options, to be exact 2 size options so fitting can be a problem for quite some men!

2 Lack of ventilation holes which makes things reek quite quickly. 

3 The tube has almost no ventilation and cleaning proved very difficult at best. 

4 It is ok to use the device for very short remote play for a few hours but not feasible for long term.

5 The current lack of override option on the self timed lock is a big concern. If you need to remove it in an emergency you can’t. It would be more sensible to set very short time to unlock yourself for cleaning and for emergencies.

6 Remote control gets unstable and the system can be hacked so safety becomes a big issue!

7 It is kinda pricy. Its price ranges from $189-$279. A metal/plastic cage + Remote Lock cost $70-$80.

8 It can be easily replaced by any metal/plastic cage/custom made belt +internet controlled lock to realize the function of internet chastity.

Conclusion

I gave up using QIUI Cellmate to do remote keyholding a long time ago because I found better way to realize long distance chastity keyholding. Any metal/plastic cage/belt + Remote lock fits men better and functions much better than cellmate.

Well Worn Items for Sale: Socks/Pantyhose/Stockings/Shoes/Highheels/Bras by Mistress/ Dominatrix

                                        Black Pantyhose

Black High Heels

Black Long Leather Boots

Nude Socks

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Game : Chastity Lockup Period can be Decided in This Way

First measure your waist circumference and prepare the result in cm. 

Take down your dick length in cm when you are 100% hard.

If your waist cicrumference is 80cm and dick length is 20cm, your lockup period is 80-20=60days

You now know what type of men get the longest lockup period?

email me at mistress@doctor.com to enquire my chastity keyholding service

How do I choose between Chastity internal and external Lock?

Many newbie slaves often ask me such question, external and internal lock, which is better ?

Let's briefly take a look at the pros and cons of these two types of chastity locks now.

External locks often cause sound, pinching problems but some people, especially the dominant owner/keyholder may find the sound of lock touching cage sexy! When external lock has seized up, it is easy to remove the cage by simply cutting the lock handle with a bolt cutter.

Internal locks are also known as built-in locks. Keys tend to crack in them over time. When internal lock has seized up, the wearer would wish he had stuck in a cage with external lock because it is much more troublesome to get out of the mess caused by internal locks! Some guys have to go to hospital and it take hours for doctors to solve that!

I personally recommend slaves to use a chastity cage with external lock. As for the sound, friction and pinching problem which can be caused by external locks, you can put a cloth covers/wrapper on the external lock to solve that!

Chastity Game: Your Name Determines Your Chastity Sentence

In the English alphabet, A is the first letter so it represents 1, B represents 2....... Z represents 26.

If the man's first name is Donald, his chastity sentence is 4+15+14+1+12+4=50 (days)

If you are more adventurous and capable, you can use first name +last name to calculate your chastity sentence. 

Email me at mistress@doctor.com to enquire chastity keyholding

Where Do I Find BDSM Therapy/Kinky Treatment?

Why do you need BDSM Therapy?

Here is a list of reasons:

1 Coming out (to self, partner, or someone else) or fear of others discovering BDSM identity or interests;

2 Compulsive issues around sexuality or BDSM;

3 Discomfort with BDSM identity or wanting to extinguish BDSM interests;

4 Fear of not being able to find partner(s) with compatible desires/interests;

5 Identifying or recovering from an abusive dynamic in a BDSM relationship;

6 Guilt and shame about accidentally hurting a partner or crossing a partner’s boundaries;

7 Lack of clarity around sexual interests or type(s) of sensation or power dynamics that would be most satisfying;

8 Mismatch in sexual preferences within a relationship;

9 Difficulty sharing BDSM community space with a former partner after a breakup.

How to Find BDSM Therapist?

You can always come to Mistress Alessandra to talk about a range of issues related to kink and BDSM. It may be because you want to discuss your desires with your partner for the first time, work with issues of acceptance or shame around your sexuality, or feel your want to change the role kink plays in your life.

Email Mistress@doctor.com to book a bdsm therapy 

My Slave's Prince Albert Piercing Experience

My slave had always been intrigued by genital piercings and had seen his fair share, but he never considered it for his little bro. Here he was though, inquiring about getting his own genital piercing. His first question to the piercer was which piercing “down there” would hurt the least. His second question was which piercing required the shortest recovery time. Both questions led him to his Prince Albert piercing!

There’s a lot of taboo behind anything odd or unique in your pants. Big dicks, huge balls, and yes, genital piercings. He remember the experience like it was yesterday, even though the 3-year anniversary of his penis piercing just passed a few days ago. He walked in with a friend, you know, to give him emotional support him through this penis-altering time. His friend held his hand as the piercer asked him to remove his shorts and lay down on the table. The back room looked like a make-shift operating room. He avoided looking at any “tools” or “needles” at all cost, but eventually, his eyes made contact with the item that would terrorize my dick head in the near future.

He can only use this metaphor to describe how his dick probably felt. Remember when you’ve taken your dog or cat into the vet to get spayed or neutered. They probably had no idea what was about to happen until bam, they’re being put under and their two veggies are being snipped away. That’s how his dick felt. It was unaware of what was about to happen, although as he laid on the table, he swore it shrunk a few inches. The piercer walked him through the procedure and he reluctantly smiled while his head shook side to side. What the hell was he doing?! If this wasn’t a crazy idea, he does not know what was! Two minutes later, he felt the cold steel rod insert my urethra (this goes through the piercing hole afterward in order to easily slide the jewelry in) and then a few seconds later, a BIG deep breath. As soon as he blew that breath out, it happened. His dick was not happy. In fact, it shriveled up and for the next two weeks decided not to look at him or stand up straight. It needed its space apparently after what he decided to do.

Here’s the part where you’d expect him to say it felt like he just got stabbed a thousand times in his crotch. Terribly wrong! It’s the number one question people always ask him when he exposes his jewelry-ed junk to them. “Did it hurt?!” His response is always, “On a scale from one to ten, it was about a four.” That’s the pain equivalent of zipping your foreskin up in a zipper. He actually thinks the healing period of the piercing is worse than getting the piercing itself. There was blood — lots of it, but nothing he couldn’t handle! He dirtied up a few coffee mugs through soaking his junk in a saltwater solution and spent many nights cringing at his raging boners that seemed to make the healing process even more painful.

He jerked off 2 weeks after he got his new piercing. It wasn’t pleasurable. The semen making contact with open wounds was excruciating pain. He was quite disappointed and only hoped the next time would be better. Months went by and the healing continued until he was able to perform with his PA as he'd always wanted to. There were no complaints on his end at all. As for the little bro that experienced all the trauma, that’s something you’ll have to ask it. He thinks the tiny bro has gotten over his evil deed.

The most intriguing part of his piercing hasn’t been the pleasure from re-wired nerves in his dick head or the gauging up process (when you increase the size of the piercing ring), but the fact that he was able to do something he’d never in a million years thought he would do. He was also able to realize that the taboo of genital piercings allowed him to explore it more in his own time and space. He saw plenty, asked many questions, and even had his feels inside and out. It’s only until you explore your own taboos that you may realize they’re more normal than you’d even have thought. That’s the true pleasure and that’s what you’ll enjoy the most.

Chastity Keyholder/Mistress For Slaves in Zurich/Geneva/Basel/Bern/Lausanne/Lucerne

 If you seek a key holder, I offer professional chastity key holding service. No matter where you are, I can lock you up instantly through Internet enabled chastity lock to realize the function of online keyholding and forced chastity training.

Online Keyholder Service For Your Holy Trainer/Jailbird/CB

Chastity self-locking is meaningless when you have the key to unlock yourself at your own discretion and freedom. Get a keyholder who is not willing to unlock you in your moments of weakness makes chastity experience more exciting. 

Male chastity is one of the ultimate forms of submission that a slave can undertake. Giving up touching yourself, giving up erections, abandoning orgasms which transfers your control over yourself to your keyholder completely. Chastity keyholding by Keyholder Mistress is a great form to realize TPE(total power exchange). By owning your cock through chastity keyholding, your power is 100% transfered to me. You feel yourself surrender your mind, body, and soul, to your

keyholder; knowing that only your chastity keyholder can grant you the relief you crave - and that feeling of submission is intoxicating!

Surrender to Mistress Keyholder Alessandra now

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Belfast/Hampshire/Essex/Yorkshire Dominatrix/Mistress Chastity Keyholding Service Online

Finally there is a good keyholding solution where you can experience true chastity lockup sentence through smart lock no matter where you are in Europe & United Kingdom. Slaves in a number of cities such as Berlin/Munich/Stuttgart/Frankfurt/Zurich/Berne/Geneva/ Amsterdam/Rotterdam/Hague/London/ Essex/Belfast/Nottingham/Manchester/Liverpool/Birmingham/Leeds/Paris/Madrid/Milan/Rome are already under my chastity remote control.

I am your Keyholder Mistress Alessandra who will help you with male chastity cage selection, sizing and lock installation after you order my chastity key holding.

Mistress@doctor.com

1) Where are you originally from?

2) Where are you?

3) How long is your recent lockup period?

These questions must be answered when you email me.

Answers to above questions help me decide your chastity lockup period, keyholding fee in your local currency, keyholding payment term.

How does Mistress train slaves to wear male chastity cage for an extended period of time?

Way too many guys tell me they have tried wearing a chastity device but just couldn’t get beyond wearing it for a day or two. Sometimes the problem is a poorly fitted cage. But often it is something minor like they developed skin irritation or sore spots that could be easily addressed with the application of a good quality personal lubricant and just weren’t prepared to deal with the minor discomfort.

It usually takes most of my beginner subs about 7-10days for their skin to toughen and grow accustomed to the chastity device hanging off their junk. After that, it is usually smooth sailing.

Especially when you’re just getting started, it’s a good idea to apply a little lubricant— water based, baby oil—around the inside of the base ring and the inside of the cage. This can help prevent skin irritation before it happens. If you experience broken skin, don’t be afraid to remove the cage for a day or two. Apply a little antibiotic cream and wait until it heals. Then start over with a wearing schedule and proper lubrication.

I like to lock beginners up in cage for a day or two at the beginning, slowly add up 3-4days then 5-6days, eventually they all can create a nice record!

Email mistress@doctor.com for Remote Lock Controlled Chastity Training 

Have you ever chickened out of Chastity Lockup Training?

Some subs appear to be very passionate and ambitious about chastity training when they approach dominant keyholder-me. They always express how much they crave to get locked up. However I did not hear from them after they tribute for 1or 2-month keyholding fee! Some started to act silent after they got the lock for keyholding. I then contacted them so that I can instruct them to set up the lock to execute the training but no reply from them ever!

Some subs do not talk much but they give good performance. They carry out my orders in the fast and best way. They keep creating new records in chastity.

Chastity training favors the brave! The tiny cage urges you to be cautious, to take it slow but not to fear chastity play. Think of chastity training as a long form of devotion to your owner, the possibilities and long tern sexual rewards can be endless!

The Thrill of Your Life being monitored as a exhibitionist slave by Mistress

Prying eyes might annoy you but others probably find it exciting! Exhibitionist slaves like to be watched and enjoy the thrill of getting caught!

Recently a bunch of slaves signed up for my surveillance camera monitoring package where I monitor their life through surveillance camera. I can watch what is happening in their room at any time but they do not know exactly when they are watched. Imagine if a chastity slave is trying to cheat, he is at great risk of being spotted by me through the camera. 

Email mistress@doctor.com to order the life monitoring package

What is Real Femdom?

One sub learned that I'm a pro domme and then shared his opinion with me saying all pro-dommes are not dominant because they do what the slave asks them to do. 

His thought could not be more ridiculous. I can not rule out the possibility that some pro-dommes might accommodate some subs’ requests for being no principle at all and just wanting the profit. Dommes practice what they don’t enjoy to cater to slaves, which is totally against the nature of femdom, female domination! However, most dommes have principles, which means they only offer what they enjoy. If what the sub seeks falls into the brackets of what the domme offers and the sub is willing to compensate Domme’s time and energy, she probably takes the session, which complies with the nature of real femdom!

I got a session request from a sub who has a smoke fetish. He got turned on by the dominant lady blowing smoke onto his face. I declined his request immediately because I am a non-smoker.

I am your reliable chastity key holder(KG keyholderin)

Verified Chastity Keyholder for slaves in Scandinavia

I met my 1st Scandinavian chastity slave in Shanghai in 2016 and started in-person chastity key holding for him. When he located back to Sweden, I use smart lock to control his male chastity device. Smart lock can be used on any chastity cage so we tried a number of different chastity cages and belts and I picked up the most suitable cage for him. He started as a beginner chastity slave who could only stay a few hours in cage but he can stay 9 months in chastity by 2021.

A slave knows its place and performs the best when he is locked away. Get a keyholder mistress for online chastity training

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Guess This Kinky Conversation Comes From Which Movie?

 

Why Humiliation Turns People On?

The question of why some people are aroused by humiliation is challenging to answer.

The thing is — if you’re into it, then you’re into it. Other people might not get it in the same way that some people don’t get extreme sports. Why risk your life jumping out of an airplane?

Well, because it’s exciting! It’s arousing! On top of that, it’s also a taboo. And every taboo is hot.

If you’re really looking for an answer on why humiliation turns some people on, you might find it in prior experiences. Some subs have had experiences where pain, embarrassment, and humiliation occurred at the same time as pleasure. Thus, they might be chasing that pleasure again. 

As a dominatrix, I am fully aware that deriving sexual arousal from some type of humiliation is a form of sexual masochism. Sexual masochism describes the phenomenon of experiencing sexual pleasure in response to receiving sexual pain. Although most people primarily assume sexual pain is physical pain, it's actually psychological pain in the case of people getting sexual arousal from humiliation.

A few years ago, a submissive found my blog and contacted me by email seeking a humiliation scenario session. Besides tons of verbal humiliation, I came up with the amazing idea of peeing in your asshole. That's right, shoot fresh piss into your asshole.

How Do Chastity Makers Produce A Properly Fitted Chastity Belt?

The procedure is like this.

After the buyer places the order and submits the wearer's measurements,  it takes the workshop 8-9 days to make an adjustable sizing mold. The sizing mold's appearance is similar to the final chastity belt but made of hard plastic and it is not one piece. The wearer needs to put several pieces together and assemble them to put on and adjust them until it fits the wearer perfectly. Send the workshop several pictures of the wearer in perfect fitting status. Based on the pictures, a 3D printer will print out the final chastity belt. If it still doesn't fit, the wearer gives feedback on how he/she wants the final printed belt to be modified! That is how the sizing mold works to ensure the final belt fits buyers perfectly!

No.323 Slave is Locked with My Best Chastity Lock for Locktober by Mistress KeyHolder

Chastity Locking Ritual for Locktober

 | Distance Key Holding | Online Keyholder |                       Locktober Chastity Training

Pros & Cons of Living And Working In Suzhou

Suzhou is located in the south of Jiangsu province, some 50 miles west of Shanghai, along the old Grand Canal with a history of 2500 years. Suzhou is a new tier-1 city with a population of about 12 million people. The city is famous for gardens, embroidery & crabs.

Pros: 

Easy Acess to western products & International restaurants

There are many western supermakets and shops in Suzhou so it is easy to get western products. You can find not only chinese food but also Indian food, Thai food, Malaysian food, Persian food, Greek food, Turkish food, French food, Italian food, Spanish food, American food here. 

Low crime rate

I am a single chinese woman. I feel safe no matter where I go in suzhou, even in late night.

Easy to travel in & around Suzhou

There are four railway stations in Suzhou that offer advanced bullet trains and ordinary trains to nearby cities and beyond. They connect Suzhou by rail to Shanghai, Beijing, Hangzhou, Nanjing, Wuxi, and other cities. Suzhou has a well developed public transportation system. Currently there are 6 metro lines, 2 tram lines. Public buses routes run into all parts of the city. It is easy to get a cab both online and offline.

 Affordable apartments & houses, much cheaper than that in Shanghai/Beijing/Shenzhen/Guangzhou

Average rent price for 1 bedroom apartment ranges from 3000CNY to 5000CNY depending on location in Suzhou.

Average rent price for 2 bedroom apartment ranges from 4000CNY to 7000CNY depending on location in Suzhou.

many good international schools for you to select

Etonhouse, Dulwich, Nord Anglia, Singapore International School, North America High School, Duke University, UWC

Full of Chinese culture

Downtown is filled with historical buildings, temples and pagoda. It is worth to explore the intangle cultural heritage in Suzhou.

Cons:

Air quality worse than western cities

Air pollution gets bad from time to time because there are many factories here. In early 2021, the air quality in Suzhou was classified as “Unhealthy” with a US AQI reading of 163. This is according to the recommended figures from the World Health Organisation (WHO). The recorded levels of the pollutants were as follows: PM2.

No Airport

When you need to travel internationally, you have to travel to Shanghai or Wuxi to take the flight, which can be a bit of hassel.

Traffic jams during rush hours

During rush hours (mornings 7am-9:00am) (evenings 5pm-6pm) traffic is very congested.

VPN is a must.

Global websites like facebook, instagram, youtube, twitter are blocked in Suzhou so you must install a VPN on mobile/PC to browse those websites. 

Conclusion:

Suzhou is one of the very livable cities to live and work in China taking everything into account.

Virtual/Digital Key Holding Demonstation Video for Chastity Slaves

Your attempt to damage the lock with metal cutting tools triggers the APP to send me warnings. When I authorize you to unlock, the APP will tell me when you actually unlock your chastity. Without my authorization in the APP, you will not be able to unlock.

This key holding applies to any chastity device/ handcuffs/collar.

Sissy Poll: My slave goes out like this at 5K views

I have a long term sissy who is very bashful. I call him Fiona. He has been crossdressing behind the doors for over 1 year. He is still not bold enough to step out of his door in his sexy sissy look.

This poll is gonna encourage him to make it happen. He goes out like this when this post hits 5000 views. I know it is both super exciting and scaring for him!  

Top Design Custom Chastity Belt Questions & Answers

What parts can be custom made?

As you can see, all parts can be custom made. the belt waist, the belt length, the dick tube girth, the dick tube length and even the holes on dick tube & pee hole can all be custom made to fit you perfectly. The holes on dick tube can be 1-4 in general. Name engraving on the belt within 8 letters does not cost extra.

What material is the custom chastity belt made of?

Front part is made of high strength nylon and back straps are made of TPH. But before making final chastity belt,  workshop makes a plastic sizing/fitting mold first which is made of average plastic to help wearer find perfect fitting.

How much does the chastity belt cost?

If you waist is below 80cm

black color belt costs 3300CNY

white color belt costs 3550CNY

If you waist is over 80cm ~105cm

black color belt costs 3600CNY

white color belt costs 3850CNY

Air mailimg fee twice to major countries (3-6days) in total 2600-2700CNY

How to buy this custom chastity belt?

The offline workshop only sell domestically in China so the only way is you pay me in major currency USD/EUR/GBP/AUD/CAD/SGD then I pay workshop in CNY. I ship the fitting model & chastity belt to your country when they are ready. You can pay me a tribute or order my keyholding service to reciprocate my efforts in getting the belt for you.

Deposit is 60% of total expense should be paid when placing the order. Balance is 40% of total expense should be paid after you get adjustable chastity mold. 

How does it lock?

As you can see, it locks on the back in the center of waist area.

Where is the pee hole?

It is at the bottom of the cock tube. The size can be made according to your requirement.

Can the wearer change the mini lock?

Of course. A mini metal lock is offered in the order of custom chastity belt. You can buy any lock to replace the mini lock.

How does workshop ensure final chastity belt fit the wearer perfectly?

After I place the order and submit slave's measurements, it takes workshop 8-9 days to make a fitting model. Fitting model's appearance is similar to final chastity belt but made of hard plastic and it is not one piece. You need to put several pieces together and assemble them to put it on to adjust it until it fits you perfectly. Send the workshop a picture of you in perfect fitting status. 3D printer will print out the final chastity belt based on the picture. If it still doesn't fit, you give feedback on how you want the final printed belt to be modified! That is how fitting model works to ensure final belt fits you perfectly!

How does it prevent the wearer from escaping?

The wearer wears the belt at waist area which is definitely above hipbones. He can not lower the belt to escape because he is locked up in perfect snug size unless he cracks his own hip bones. It is common sense that chastity belts function much better than chastity cages in terms of anti-escaping.

How does the wearer clean the belt?

You do not need to take off the belt to clean it. Cleaning toolkit is included in the order of this custom chastity belt. You will be given an empty bottle with a nozzle. You can fill the bottle with water to clean the belt.

How long does it take the wearer to receive the belt?

In general it takes less than 8weeks after you make payment and submit measurements. There could be a small delay for parcel delivery if your or my city is going through covid lockdown or some natural desaster like snow storm.

Will others notice my belt?

Any kind of pants can hide it well. It is smoother than your natural shape, and flatter than many "shemale" style or steel chastity belts. It is also more concealing than most small chastity cages and belts.

What countries can this chastity belt be sent to?

I have consulted this shipping carrier.In General, shipping to Europe, USA, Canada and Australia is not a problem.

Recently slave from USA subscribed to my 3-month chastity keyholding package and another slave from Canada subscribed to my 2-month keyholding so I helped both of them to get this awesome custom chastity belt!

Femdom Poll: How Long Should No. 322 chastity sissy wear cage for Mistress?

 

A: 3days

B: 1 Week

C: 2 Weeks

D: 1month

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Got A Custom Male Chastity Belt From Workshop for My Slave

After my slave tried out all types of chastity cages, he has decided to get a custom chastity belt for long term training.

We had a look at some European chastity websites. The price of a custom made chastity belt ranges from 1000 to 5000euro, which is outrageously expensive. A friend ordered a neosteel chastity belt and he waited nearly 3 months to receive it! Another friend used a fancysteel chastity belt and he waited 21 weeks to get it! Unbelievable! I do not think we can wait that long! Besides long waiting time, the heaviness of the metal material made us give up the option of getting a metal belt!

Then we shift our focus to chinese market. When we were travelling in wuxi, China, we found a workshop specializing in making custom made chastity belts. They only produce 1 style of chastity belts but there are 2 material options. You can select either resin or sturdy nylon. Before they manufacture it, they send us a picture guide to instruct my slave how to measure for the chastity belt. It usually takes them 30-60days to make it. We got 1 made of resin after about 46days and the price is 3300CNY which was about 510USD. It is pretty light as it only weighs 150g. The special part is the backside is made of slightly softer material called TPH so that slave can sit down comfortably. You might have a body shape change over time, it still can fit you perfectly. 

I and my slave both are very satisfied with this chastity belt and he has been in thus belt for over 2 years now.

Price Info

I have been getting a lot of email asking about this TPU chastity belt. I need to mention 1 important thing is that the workshop can only produce chastity belt with waist not exceeding 105cm. Fitting Model and Cleaning Tool Kit are included in the price of chastity belt.

Style A TPU Chastity Belt

Deposit is 60% of total expense should be paid when placing the order. Balance is 40% of total expense should be paid after you get adjustable chastity mold. 

Name engraving on the belt within 8 letters is free of charge. Extra fee will be charged if exceeds 8 letters.

What method is used to ensure final chastity belt fit you perfectly?

After I place the order and submit slave's measurements, it takes workshop 8-9 days to make a fitting model/mold. Fitting model's appearance is similar to final chastity belt but made of hard plastic and it is not one piece. You need to put several pieces together and assemble them to put it on to adjust it until it fits you perfectly. Send the workshop 2 pictures of you in perfect fitting status(front and back). 3D printer will print out the final chastity belt based on the picture. If it still doesn't fit, you give feedback on how you want the final printed belt to be modified! That is how fitting model works to ensure final belt fits you perfectly!

                   I am holding an adjustable fitting model/mold

Slave wears adjustable fitting mold to find perfect fitting

Cleaning toolkit and accessories

discreet and double protection packaging foam box filled with foam balls + carton

Update on December 7, 2021

Helped a slave in Netherlands to get this belt. I am so glad he got this belt in perfect fitting and intact condition after 58days. He is now my No.400 chastity slave! I first instructed him to measure correctly for the belt and then it took workshop 8-9days to produce a plastic fitting model. Then it took fedex 8-9days to ship the fitting model to Holland. If the plastic fitting model didn't fit him perfectly, he would have to give feedback on sizing so that the workshop can make final product of perfect size. It will take workshop about 21days to make final product. Afterwards it will take fedex 8-9days to ship final product to Netherlands.

Update on Jan 6, 2022

Today 1 slave from USA subscribed to my 3-month chastity keyholding package and another slave from Canada subscribed to my 2-month keyholding so I helped both of them to get this awesome custom chastity belt!

Update on Feb.10, 2022

1 German slave from Frankfurt sent me a tribute so I helped me to order this chastity belt.

Update on Feb.16, 2022

Helped 1 Dutch slave from Pijnacker to get this chastity belt.

Update on March. 04, 2022

1 slave from London, UK subscribed to my 6-month chastity keyholding and another slave from California, USA subscribed to 1-month keyholding so I helped both of them to get this access denied chastity belt.

Update on April. 14, 2022

Shipped a custom male chastity belt to Texas, USA.

Update on April. 15, 2022

Sent out 2 chastity belts to Sydney, Australia.

Update on May 25, 2022

Shipped an oval pee hole chastity belt to Hamburg, Germany

Update on May. 20, 2022

Workshop launched new material version : custom TPU chastity belt.  Compared with old version high strength nylon belt, TPU material is softer. As you can see from the pic, the side waist and back parts are made of TPU. The middle front and cage part are made of high strength nylon. TPU material has below advantages: 

High elasticity across the entire hardness range.

Excellent low-temperature and impact strength.

Resilience to oils, greases and numerous solvents.

Good flexibility over a wide temperature range.

Update on June. 19, 2022

Two More Slaves From New York & Washington Ordered This Comfortable Chastity Belt For Long Term Chastity Training

    Slave wears adjustable mold to find the right size before new TPU belt gets produced

Update on July. 31st , 2022

Ship custom TPU chastity belt to slave in Chicago

Update on August. 28, 2022

Slave in Los Angeles ordered custom chastity belt in old style nylon.

Update on September. 16, 2022

Slave in Australia received the chastity mold before he gets the chastity belt.

Update on September 19, 2022

Slave in South Korea got engraved Chastity Belt

Update on November 20th, 2023

Sub in Canada ordered style A chastity belt

Update on September 10th, 2024

1 Sub in Netherlands, 2 subs in France, 1 sub in Germany and 2 subs in USA ordered style A chastity belt.

This 3D printed shield chastity belt is a custom-fitted and lightweight, yet inescapable chastity device–no piercing required. This chastity belt supports both internal and external locks.

Style B Shield Chastity Belt

Style C Ball Ring Chastity Belt

Style D Hentai Chastity Belt

This 3D printed hentai chastity belt is a custom-fitted and lightweight, yet inescapable chastity device–no piercing required. 

Update on December 3rd, 2022

Bought ball ring chastity belt for American Chaste. 

Update on December. 18, 2022

Got 2 shield chastity belts for slaves in United States.

Update on December 29, 2022

Bought 2 ball ring chastity belts for chastes in Belgium and Netherlands

Update on Jan, 5, 2023

Chastity Extra Customization Is Available！

We made an extra buttplug supporting plate which can be attached on ball ring chastity belt for slaves in United States!

Update on May.15, 2023

Got 2 chastity belts for slaves in United States.

Update on August. 28, 2023

Got 2 chastity belts for slaves in Canada & Germany.

Update on August. 28, 2023

Got 2 chastity belts for slaves in USA &  Canada

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